Dear Brother Chan Fong,
I’ve been thinking for a long time and I really don’t know who to talk to. I don’t have friends or family around me. Even though I have a boyfriend, it doesn’t feel like I do. I really feel lost.

A few years ago, I left my hometown alone and came to Kuala Lumpur to work. I’ve never had a good relationship with my family, especially my mother who has always shown favoritism to my elder brother. I’ve always been the one who gives but is never seen in a good light by her. My childhood was filled with beatings and cold, harsh words. Even now, when I’m alone and think about it, I still cry. I hold a lot of resentment because such a childhood made me extremely guarded toward people around me, always thinking no one is truly genuine. Whether it’s in work, love, or friendships, I feel exhausted. I’ve forgotten what happiness feels like. People think I’m weird, very cold. I eat lunch alone and don’t want to interact with anyone. Since leaving my hometown, I’ve lost contact even with the one or two good friends I used to have. My siblings and I are almost completely out of touch, only saying a few words when I go back every few months.

Here, I met a man on a dating app who is 10 years older than me. He is sincere and hardworking. We’ve been together for two years. He even bought a house so that I no longer have to rent, giving me a sense of security. I know he is serious about me and wants to spend his life with me.

But what really bothers me is that he is really bad when it comes to sex — every time it’s over in a few minutes. I became so frustrated that he eventually admitted his problem. He has seen a doctor and relied on medication, but even now, after all this time together, the problem remains. Gradually, I’ve become very indifferent to this relationship. We sleep on the same bed but always with our backs to each other. It’s been over a month without any intimacy and he seems to think that’s perfectly normal — he never initiates anything. I often wonder, I’m still young, do I really want to live without sex for the rest of my life? But then I think about how he bought this house so I could live comfortably — it feels too cruel to leave him.

Now, even though we’re under the same roof, I find everything he says and does irritating. I don’t want to talk to him at all. Slowly, I’ve started turning to dating apps again, hoping to find someone I can really talk to. I want to leave this city, but I don’t know where to go. Going back to my hometown? I don’t want to see my family. I don’t even know what I should do. I just feel so unhappy. Every day, I go home and face the wall with no one to talk to.

— Ying




This post has been edited by premier239: Jun 6 2025, 12:20 PM

she just wan a nice long hump

not hard to get if u know where to look

her bf confirm ghey, few months no sex

It's usually either ED or PE.

This post has been edited by annoymous1234: Jun 6 2025, 12:36 PM

i can help to sextisfied amoi

sex is important

Maybe the bf need a harpon? Who knows

Fake story, Asian women not into sex unlike western women…owai

tonight? must listen

There the tukang kebun, driver, bangla worker etc.

Dick weak no cure one, see dr also can't help punya...

Wimminz, even if you give them the world.....

diamlah. u just stick with farking your gandum at night

Why she no join /k..
Sure a lot /k can help her

i believe most k ppl here "i can fix her"

lol sleeping with backs facing each other is a problem?

amoi wan cuddle wuddle, huggie waggie

i think maybe the woman is a ugly. man needs sex, if a man doesn't asks from you, it means that he's getting it from others

wondering how may k/tards also pancut in few minutes but self claim can fucuk for a long time

Back to eating apps to 'Find someone I can really talk to'

Don't wan to leave the man because 'cruel' , or because the comfortable life?

Okayyyy

she only write this she want, that she want and this she don't want and that she don't want.
She have to post her drillz so people can judge weather her requirement is excessive.

She got problem with family and now she got problem with bf
so who’s the real problem here?

This post has been edited by BobThe Builder: Jun 6 2025, 12:35 PM

Only people that never sleep with other people think every night must sleep hugging eachothers. Its damn uncomfortable, hot, numb hand, weird posture. Then if 1 of them move to change posture, the others will be disturbed hence reducing sleep quality

a few mins is how many minutes? she expect like porn 30mins?

if both feels ok then ok lo... but then again, it's not healthy IMO. coz no interaction/ intimate/ raba raba actions... soon or later sure gg. except that's what they want. PLEASE DON'T DISTURB MY SLEEP!

Bodoh no details how to help her

Kek

/K/tard is queuing to offer service queuing until singapork

Amoi watched too much AV

she needs a councilor to heal her ptsd since childhood bad memories

What AV don't tell you is they also take breaks in between scenes.

my concern more on like you cannot maintain the cuddle position for long la, someone's hand will die if you slept thru entire night in spoon or cuddle position

this, hot not much of an issue if AC is on but just uncomfortable for a good sleep

me and my fiance we many times went to sleep cuddling, but halfway my arms died and she felt uncomfortable in the position so we ended up just sleeping on our own sides kek

if shes like ms puiyi, then bf problem
if shes like adeline then its her problem

aiya she can work for 2feidei part time, can earn money and satisfy her need

Sob sob forgive me i am foreverarone hugging gandum to sleep in tears daily

cikgu fadhilah says the opposite

https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5524592/

woa nowdays amoi not bad hor.. want sex before security

Did she give him blowjobs, peg his asshole, rim his ass, dress sexily or does she just lie there and expect the guy to do everything?

ego lettew

Need long foreplay + sex toys

Maybe the guy dont wanna lick lick

Wimmin ☕

She mention she senyap-senyap open dating app again.

Then hamsaplou will talk her into doing hamsap thing together.
She might even agree to gangbang by many hamsaplou unker behind her bf.

Kecian good guy kena green hat by many hamsaplou unker once again.

Unker seen tooo many such amoi/awek/minachi jor.

lol

This girl already cheated emotionally.
And acting indifferently to the boy.

If she cant accept no sex and break up amicably i will respect her. But to cheat and torture his bf like this after all he had provided her, just throw her to the streets.
In future during their downturn in life, the girl will run away anyway.

I am satisfied as long as lower body parts are touching. for upper arms, maybe will be ok if the girl is slim and light?

I will just put my hand on her boobs when hot already after cuddle . Me like soft curvature. Ngam my palm.

regarding online dating app, do huge majority of people just want sex?

I believe most of them just want companionship.

But, having good sex is a bonus, especially from someone that they attracted to.

That guy can use hand can use tongue ma.

Lazy lertu

Amoi need help here, ranger assemble!



This post has been edited by bashlyner: Jun 6 2025, 01:27 PM

Ur fb embed fail

Got picture?

Else can’t comment.

boss macam experienced je, kena green hat before?

Founded many housewife or pipu gf on dating app.
Curi makan when hubby/bf not around.

i blame socmed the one messes up expectations they want from their other half

Bf/hubby got anxiety/over excitement issue.

Usually will be gone if you have sex more regulary. Or if persistent issue need doc presciption of anti anxiety medication.

This guy explain it nicely



This post has been edited by max_cavalera: Jun 6 2025, 01:28 PM

Updated

need to fak everyday,so your brain fell less exited ,hence longer lo
dont say i no teach her

really sadding for us guys, working so hard for everything just to get unsatisfied other half n get green hat

>cucumber jer la
topkek
Nearlee

LoL hamsup ktard

haven see the amoi pic already promise satisfy her this and that, later irl the amoi like adeline u all can meh

This post has been edited by KevProp: Jun 6 2025, 01:29 PM

now a days i cant cum with just bj alone liao,not sure i train over liao or not

Kuat nafsu amoi ini nampaknya

DoomsdaymetalfirexCMporkycorgi5588nasiputih

magik tisu je la

last time unker dated damn hot girl with hot body.. really few strokes then pancut coz of the view and gfe...

after i discover magik tisu then last longer

Welp, she is thinking about leaving him anyways.
Like all salaryman, secure job first before resigning

Open up the relationship lo

She is the sohai problem
I pity the bf on getting such wimmen

She is still with him.because she see he got usefulness in providing a comfortable homestay for free

This kind of lanjiao woman thinking shud just rot la.. once the guy lose job or got some financial trouble, she will be the first to run

This post has been edited by Boomwick: Jun 6 2025, 01:44 PM

pretty common for married couple. only forever alone think marriage means frequent sexing.

The bf need to exercise la. Good stamina = last long. When low stamina feel tired the brain will subconsciously think want cum and settle.

Maybe it's psychological.

Just need to try new methods

you all belip this fake shit?

Ying, consider ride on him to achieve orgasm in shortest time so you happy he happy. dont just be a dead fish waiting him to satisfy you.

today i slept in office for 2 hours.
no one realised i was asleep because no one was in office from 1200 to 1400

dun like mai break lor. wimminz.

she just laying there like star fish...any ah beng also will want to quickly get it over with la.

This post has been edited by ticke: Jun 6 2025, 02:05 PM

What is this magic tissue ? I saw it selling in Lazada

How does it work ?

Age gap kot…so needs also diff…

See after beranak n see lolz

Many couples face this issue, especially when they everyday eat the same dishes and lose their appetite. amoi sikit sikit mau breakup cannot last long

Sapu n let it numb

like the uncle yesterday that lost 180k?

Life is like this lor, found 1 good partner but there's always a catch or something you need to deal with. Similar as but car or house, nice one but there will be 1 issue you need to deal with quite frequently.

haiyaa. go hit the gym to boost test. do not skip leg day. run on treadmill to boost stamina. nanti keras dari besi, tahan berjam jam.

Fyi,, most type c gaiss does not like licky licky, but they want sucky sucky from their gf/ waifu

order grabmart fresh timun and terungs.

1st, after consult doctor, no improvement, then stop seeing doctor liao. Need professional guidance, doctors are not sex professional. Those Siambu ports, Viwtmoi ports are. Book them and have them find out the root cause of the problem. The GF go accompany him but not interfere the professonal "treatment".

2nd, the women wants something that the man can't satisfy her, means she have no give respect to the ma already. The man effectiveky becums ATM.

Men please be smart if see such signs, please let go the women and let her roam the streets. Someone will eventually pick her up but that's never you.

Men, if the women gives you problems, is your problem. If you can't handle the problem, please let go fhe women before you make an expensive fool of yourself.

Because we were having a fire drill the whole time

a lot of ppl resorted to medication such as blue pill which is temporary without trying the most natural and fundamental way first- exercise and diet

i think they want an easy way out - pop a pill and start working

nasib baik bukan real fire....otherwise really give birth to char siew

Ayam struck out your name during headcount say you EL for herpes treatment. Is okey dun need thank me.

Does it really work ? It is alcohol based or something ?

yes

aft sapu u gotta wash thoroughly if not ur girl will cry in pain lol

idk based on what, long time unker no use since married, generally i last as long as it takes to make wife cum, so around 15m

sapu can last longer la, min also 5-10mins definitely not 3 strokes pancut... tersapu a lot can risk not cumming at all

do at ur own risk

maybe her pussy just really nice ..

Not alcohol , it works. If u dun mind wearing a condom, can buy those with numbing effect.. sure last long one

no one asked you maintain same position for whole night. at one point sure sleep on your own. the who peluk sure will get tired/ uncomfortable. the main point is at least you get intimate/ raba raba moments everyday. not ask you stick like glue.

This post has been edited by cycheah: Jun 6 2025, 02:49 PM

thats the point im trying to put across la, you can start cuddle2 tapi in the end still will separate lor

so this isnt a big deal at all

Lol- if u last too long also not good …

bang her just over an hour - she literally turn into exorcist post-

Keep asking me to stop and moan - i just have to jerk it off to not hurt her.

Everyone have their problems - just gotta work it through slowly-

This post has been edited by badmilk: Jun 6 2025, 02:59 PM

Still go cheong?

Can suck dick wat

Aiya really.meh?
CF really dont want to waste time on this kind of issue la

outsource lo

ktard where got pancut.