Dear Brother Chan Fong,
I’ve been thinking for a long time and I really don’t know who to talk to. I don’t have friends or family around me. Even though I have a boyfriend, it doesn’t feel like I do. I really feel lost.

A few years ago, I left my hometown alone and came to Kuala Lumpur to work. I’ve never had a good relationship with my family, especially my mother who has always shown favoritism to my elder brother. I’ve always been the one who gives but is never seen in a good light by her. My childhood was filled with beatings and cold, harsh words. Even now, when I’m alone and think about it, I still cry. I hold a lot of resentment because such a childhood made me extremely guarded toward people around me, always thinking no one is truly genuine. Whether it’s in work, love, or friendships, I feel exhausted. I’ve forgotten what happiness feels like. People think I’m weird, very cold. I eat lunch alone and don’t want to interact with anyone. Since leaving my hometown, I’ve lost contact even with the one or two good friends I used to have. My siblings and I are almost completely out of touch, only saying a few words when I go back every few months.

Here, I met a man on a dating app who is 10 years older than me. He is sincere and hardworking. We’ve been together for two years. He even bought a house so that I no longer have to rent, giving me a sense of security. I know he is serious about me and wants to spend his life with me.

But what really bothers me is that he is really bad when it comes to sex — every time it’s over in a few minutes. I became so frustrated that he eventually admitted his problem. He has seen a doctor and relied on medication, but even now, after all this time together, the problem remains. Gradually, I’ve become very indifferent to this relationship. We sleep on the same bed but always with our backs to each other. It’s been over a month without any intimacy and he seems to think that’s perfectly normal — he never initiates anything. I often wonder, I’m still young, do I really want to live without sex for the rest of my life? But then I think about how he bought this house so I could live comfortably — it feels too cruel to leave him.

Now, even though we’re under the same roof, I find everything he says and does irritating. I don’t want to talk to him at all. Slowly, I’ve started turning to dating apps again, hoping to find someone I can really talk to. I want to leave this city, but I don’t know where to go. Going back to my hometown? I don’t want to see my family. I don’t even know what I should do. I just feel so unhappy. Every day, I go home and face the wall with no one to talk to.

— Ying




This post has been edited by premier239: Jun 6 2025, 12:20 PM

she just wan a nice long hump

not hard to get if u know where to look

her bf confirm ghey, few months no sex

It's usually either ED or PE.

This post has been edited by annoymous1234: Jun 6 2025, 12:36 PM

i can help to sextisfied amoi

sex is important

Maybe the bf need a harpon? Who knows

Fake story, Asian women not into sex unlike western women…owai

tonight? must listen

There the tukang kebun, driver, bangla worker etc.

Dick weak no cure one, see dr also can't help punya...

Wimminz, even if you give them the world.....

diamlah. u just stick with farking your gandum at night

Why she no join /k..
Sure a lot /k can help her

i believe most k ppl here "i can fix her"

lol sleeping with backs facing each other is a problem?

amoi wan cuddle wuddle, huggie waggie

i think maybe the woman is a ugly. man needs sex, if a man doesn't asks from you, it means that he's getting it from others

wondering how may k/tards also pancut in few minutes but self claim can fucuk for a long time

Back to eating apps to 'Find someone I can really talk to'

Don't wan to leave the man because 'cruel' , or because the comfortable life?

Okayyyy

she only write this she want, that she want and this she don't want and that she don't want.
She have to post her drillz so people can judge weather her requirement is excessive.