texting, video/voice call and meet in person is so difference.
some may good in texting and video/voice call, but may not also good in conversation during face to face.

when face to face, ppl is able to see/feel/notice/sense our facial expression, body language, and our emotion at that moment beside the verbal message whether is acceptance or rejection.

is a waste of time, that’s actually a very subjective, is might takes more than one meeting to understand if someone is truly compatible