Wife stay with kids at parents house. I was playing badminton. The water pump broke, flooded the other room. She called me, but I didn't answer. After 30+ mins I only checked phone, saw the video sent. Then saw the voice messages by my kids saying they are going to the condo to stay. So I msg back and replied that I am leaving now, but go back house first to check on situation and take some things.

Called my brother, asked about the condition of the room. Say will arrange ppl come fix tomorrow. Then drove back to home, see condition and then take things, go to condo. Kena confronted by wife asking why you didn't call her back. I told her that dont want to disturb her settle the kids first to sleep, then when back condo only discussed what happen.

What she said next - "you don't concern about us all is it? Why don't call back? You make me very angry now." Kena tembak kau-kau because of not calling her back, hence not concern at all.

Am I the arsehole here?

POV problem.

On your wife side, yes.
On your side, no but why u msg only & didn't call? (Next time remember to msg & call)

depend on wife drill

you did replied tho, so whats the issue on not calling back? you already acknowledge the problem she presented


if you ask me, these kind of logical thinking sometimes do not apply to people in distress. so dont fret too much about it

woman is like that, they need to be comforted with an actual call

it's all about emotion

yes. women are crazy.
your mistake is marrying one.

Happy wife happy life.

Inb4 dirvoce jer la.

wife phftttttttttttttttttttt

This post has been edited by poco loco: May 22 2025, 04:07 AM

Men's POV:
Just a water pump issue, small issue.
Room flooded, not house folded, small issue.
Try to settle things, chill.

Women's POV:
My husband care more of badminton than answering my call.
My husband could be with another woman instrad of badminton.
My husband always plays badminton instead of spending time with family.

The issue here is not calling her back or not.
She is making a scene cos badminton is the issue.

Really.

You message jer, did she reply back or not?

Badminton is the issue la

Say no care about kids, basically it means why u no come take care kids

Ur wife and kids stay at your parents house, so what is the issue if your own house water pump broke? Not tsunami coming right?

Besides water pump je pun,

Sorry but you marry your wife so that your children can happily ever after. Just like China need to marry USA so that the rest of the world can happily ever after. Now control your woman.

Noob arsehole

Like that wan la. They have an expected set of steps and if you do not follow each of them, they'll take it that you don't love them/don't give a damn about them anymore.

This post has been edited by khelben: May 22 2025, 05:55 AM

next time video call terus. sudah marry how long? Ini pon mau ajar ka?

Woman live by emotion not logic

That’s why they always right

Sooo true ... just layan je laa .
Some time reply ws too short also kena . 😅

Yes

Yes you should have called first the moment you saw the miscall.
Nothing wrong with the plan, at least keep her informed

Paip bicir until room flooded very serious lor. U didnt even call.

She is right u dont care about her at all. Dont give excuses la. Imagine la if during dating period. U will call her to check in or not.