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Bananahead
post May 16 2025, 01:10 PM

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I know of a few friends who got pregnant before marriage, but all of them were still with their boyfriends that time, so they could still get married after the parents found out.

But your friend's situation might give her parents a heart attack. Either way, should still sit down with the parents and tell them beforehand that she has something that might shock them, and to only proceed when the parents have prepared mentally for the worst.
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post May 16 2025, 01:14 PM

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QUOTE(keybearer @ May 16 2025, 01:08 PM)
Slightly off-topic but when it comes to Malaysia's citizenship for the baby, there's a slight issue if a single female parent give birth from an unregistered foreign husband, right?
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As far as I know, will just follow the citizenship of the mother. I have a friend who got piaped by Yindian citizen then hit and run. As far as I know, her child is a Malaysian.
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post May 16 2025, 01:18 PM

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QUOTE(cempedaklife @ May 16 2025, 12:34 PM)
Just drop the baby to the parents and continue enjoy life in Singapore.
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Honestly, there are far too many like this.
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post May 16 2025, 02:05 PM

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QUOTE(acbc @ May 16 2025, 01:45 PM)
3 solutions.

1. Inform the ex about it and tell him to take responsibility.
2. If ex agreed, inform her parents.
3. After that, inform the ex's parents.

Happy merrily ending.

However, the ex refused to acknowledged, she has to inform her parents and let them decide. If the parents willing to help raise their future grand kid, also a good ending.

If the parents refused to even acknowledge the future grand kid, adoption is only way.

Never ever opt for abortion. More regrets later.
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Most of the marriage after pregnant cases I know end up in divorce. Furthermore, TS's friend has already broke up, means even bigger underlying issue, even if married 99.99% will divorce again. Better not get married, instead raise the kid herself if she really wants to bring the kid to this world.

 

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