A lot of people failed to realise that having kids are considered a test in your life.

If both of you work as a doctor, don't expect your kids will have the high IQ and can follow your footsteps to become a doctor.

If you treat or raise your kids well, it's not guaranteed your kids will turn out good when they reach adulthood.

Your kids can become a nightmare to you when they grown up.

Another thing is raising a daugter is ten time harder than raising a son.

Why daughter more susah?

I also ok, still give money to mom

You turned out ok.
I also turned out ok.

What’s so difficult