as per title

i feel like ayam not comfortable when ayam out with a girl and she wear too revealingly (like , if she barely bend down a bit, also can see undies, and undies she like to wear translucent one, i always nag her about it, like wtf is undies for if it's translucent might as well dont wear more exciting)

but her excuse always is, she doesnt think so much, she just dress how she feels is good looking and comfortable
my answer to her is yeah right, like that a lot of guys also wanna show off their dick and walk around with balls hanging out, they feel good looking dressed like that, but is it appropriate? then she shut up liao

i feel machem bad also like ayam a control freak, so i went onto reddit where majority of westerners feel it is like a huge crime to control what a woman wears. but there are some who say "all these ppl here are idiots, if my gf or waifu wanna act like she is single and dun need to care bout what i think, then she might as well be single"

so here i come to /k to ask for ur opinion, am i an AH for dictating how she should dress.

TLDR: do u care how ur gf or waifu dress.

wanted to post drills but scared kena ban

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 02:19 PM

#mybodymychoice

She try to make u proud, don't stop her.

I'm happy with anything that she wears.

you want to get roasted in /r/twoxchromosomes ?

Yes. My future gf must wear above knee skirt

This post has been edited by potatolala: May 8 2025, 02:23 PM

Wei. Long time no see. Almost marry liao????

Janji ada piap.....end of story

good thing must share with others

nobody cares what your right hand wears la, TS.

I got one unker friend. Divorce twice, richfag drive e300 amg stay in Farlim corner house. Now got a hot young 22 year old gf.

Always ask his gf to dress lower cut and shorter skirt, it's for showing off he says,

My brother even fully covered bertudung preggo woman still got peeps hamsup

There is no need to be overly concerned, unless you wife a thot well that's on you

i am fine with it, in fact i am proud, not that those guys can touch her also

I sense trolls...

All.machem wanna encourage other ppl waifu or gf to dress short short then can take photos machem nearlee and a bang sepang

Btw how come nobody can refute if guy dress with balls hanging out everyone will look at him like he is a freak..... but why don't we apply the same standards to women
I wanna dare ktard to make an experiment , wear grey sweatpants ( I only realized there's such a thing as dick outline being easily visible in grey sweatpants thanks to reddit) and dont wear underwear.. but if u 2" then maybe can put a cucumber or Cavendish banana inside... see how ppl react.

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 02:35 PM

kuda need more attensyen to keep the hnghhhhness

If you dont want trolls, post in serious kopitiam.

But to answer your OG post, I dont police my wife attire. And beside covering intimate part, underwears are for body comfort and protection from external stuff. Nobody with the right mind will purposely go and uncover her pants or skirts. If it shows a bit, properly she is more comfortable to have translucent than people see and comment on the colors or brands.

Also, you dont compare la guys and girls. Chest and crotch are 2 different parts ok.

You better tell us where she went and let us do the judging

Ts imaginary gf pun nak so strict... only ppl in yr mind can see, biar je

not your girlfriend or waifu, stay out from it lah, why busybody nak jadi her attire police

Ada nen nen and pussy boleh tengok, enjoy jer lah

Nope. Her body, up to her.

they get to see only

i get to full 9 yard 360 degree snub snub

Nobody uncover but she does it herself

Like I said when she just bend down very slightly also can see alrdy, and because she wears those actually 90% transparency (because it's mesh) its like giving ppl full view of butt....

If a guy dressed like that is appropriate?

Lol

Tell me if got bunch of kids there u think it's appropriate meh

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 03:04 PM

If gf or waifu then how

Im proud my gf wear sexy n revealing and got eyes curi curi see.

U should be worried if you gf wear sexy n revwaling but nobody even wanna look at.

So I see many cucks....

I rmbr last time got a cuck uncle he ask his gf purposely dun wear undies then when we ordering food at mamak he ask her to open her legs... wtf

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 03:05 PM

i think we need to see photo only can judge

then inside got wear sexy sexy for you to see also?
or inside is just grandma style, but outside for ppl to see punya, is top notch tip top fashion taste?

begitu lah upskirt guy was born.

piap her kuat kuat at night

ur uncle waifu landwhale or hawt first?

Not reli my own uncle but someone i knew from swinger website

He was like 60s alrdy with white hair
Brag about his pajero... inside got some navigation system one

Then brought me to his condo in subang jaya or subang to piap his gf who is in her 30s

She so so la, can piap but not reli someone u would dream of , probably somewhere 5 to 6 /10.. uncle himself old white hair can get 30s gf can't complain la

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 03:28 PM

she still on the lookout for better dudes

Eh, if she bends until can see the actual butt, it is not only the undies got problem now.

Guys dressed like that, you think women dont like to see? Again dont compare guys and gals la. The body parts are functionally different.

If it is not appropriate to the location, just highlight to her lo. take photo let her see.

if she doesnt care, waht can you do? it is a different era now.

dapat gf/waifu first then only say

whats the point in having a trophy but then cant show it off? Others can see only but kenot touch

Yes, I dictate how my waifu wear in the bedroom. I even bought some nurse, police and some pretty hardcore cotumes for her. But so far only wore once. Lol

If I were a guy, I wouldn't even date a girl who doesn't even respect herself by dressing that way. To me, that just gives off the impression that she's desperate for attention.

Yes I understand that it's her body, her choice but we need to understand that this is an Asian country where most ppl don't appreciate girls dressing like strippers in broad daylight.

TS, maybe u can try asking her if she'll feel proud of her daughter if she dresses like that someday.

Damnit 2nd page today

ok, so now u have no prob when other waifu wanna show-off but not yours right?

then i can conclude that there is talibanism and egoism in you

Proud gila got such hawt looking GF. Just make sure others knows that youre the "owner"

i can just give her ultimatum lor, if she wanna dress like she single, then just be single, we just piap2 fubu

i dun like to be responsible for someone who gives free peepshows..

yes, last time i told her directly, she looks like "someone who works here" because we were parking at a red light district , she bend down to pick up some stuff from the car boot....

then she got mad and said how can i say that. i told her, u tell me, now u bend down abit to pick up something on the restaurant table (not floor ya, table) and u see how people react, u dare? plus she was the one who encouraged me to speak my mind...

then she got mad, told me why should she do that, and told me she dun need to show her tits and pussy, she also gets attention from guys. then i said ya la, everyone gives u attention because they think youre a slut lol

i will ask her about the daughter thing... i reserve that as my last bullet...

btw nowadays some ppl think the more skin they show the more modern and civilized they are...lmao, tell me youre not classy without telling me youre not classy.

even celebs who dress revealingly they have ways to minimize risk of wardrobe malfunction.

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 04:28 PM

Is this alternate universe k?

3 pages and nobody angry no drilzz provided 😜

i have no problem because i cant tell someone else's waifu how to dress

if my own waifu, i can tell her i dont like, if she likes then should have got another guy who is happy to show her off.

in fact, i got ask her, why not she go without underwear and dress in short skirt, then i will just be a cuck and enjoy other people's reactions. dont do it halfway, wear short but inside wear underwear lol macam potong stim either u go big or go hom

no foto, no komen

Must show deep V, wear mini skirt~~~

Yes. Must wear short short and revealing because if you don’t wear now when are you going to wear it? 40+? Ewww at that time you wear it I also no kick la.

Got nice body then flaunt it la when young. The dumbest thing to do is to worry about others or your bf’s insecurities.

Even men go to the gym with the goal of looking buff la.

It's okay as long as she is not unclothed.

why are you playing dress-up with your left hand?

plot twist what if waifu approaching 40s ....

oh btw, if both of us dont worry about each other's insecurities

then i might as well go meet up with new amoi every night... i just tell her im having a drink with amoi... technically not something i cant do right? why? insecure much?

btw it's also quite strange, im told to break off contact with an ex (crazy woman who kept coming after me , sending letters to my house after i blocked her on phone, email etc)

but she can secretly msg her ex (whom she had a fling with while she was still with someone else) and schedule meetups behind my back...................

this kind of women , she keep asking to marry her but ayam gut feeling telling me so many red flags...

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 04:47 PM

kesian, forever alone complain imaginary girl dating...

showing undies? nothing sexy, thats just not proper dressing

showing a little boobie cleavage? thats sexy (only if uve got a nice figure)

too revealing? as much as i enjoy looking at, sorry youre a slut, no matter how those lustful ah pek, sorhai teenager and slut bitch trying to normalise it, slutty is still slutty , nothing to do with modern world, open minded or blablabla

you think it is free shows.

she will think it as her freedom.

To be civil, it is a matter of different opinions.

Sometimes, it takes time to change a person views.

If you value her, take the time to change her views.

In relationship, it takes times to get things work.

if she doesn't care about ur feelings when dressing, u guys aint ready for marriage yet..

same with ur life choices...

do i go around talking to single females or having meals 1:1 with them? no i don't anymore unless there is a reason she is comfortable with..

agree
too revealing, even blackpink stars know more modesty ... they also try to ensure they dont have nipslip or pantyslip etc

i duno , seems like a lot of cucks here leh, it's like im in the wrong... maybe i from old generation like u?
but , im a high keras male, if i go out , i dun wan to be seen with some slutty looking person ... it doesnt suit my image

and she also the one who told me, clothes maketh a man, so maybe i should tell her, if u dress like a slut and ppl think youre a slut, can u blame them.
freedom got boundaries one. not everything youre free to do should be done.

if i like to curse apa lanchow etc it is my freedom also...
but will she like it?

agree. i only marry someone who will take my views seriously.

like if we dont see eye to eye on this basic thing, it means we dont suit each other for marriage, maybe if piap2 can la.

but problem is she keep asking me for marriage..... when she isnt marriage material. lol.

girls like to tie down high quality guys, but they never want to be the high quality woman who deserves the high quality guy

IMO let her feel good about herself before she grows old. I don't think her intention is to attract other males unless proven otherwise. Those who claimed that it's a respect thing is definitely insecure lol - it's not like she went out and make out with people randomly.

There's this trend where girls take revealing photos of themselves (not nude) when they are young so that they can preserve their "best look" in the form of photos.

Now if she wears that while going out with other male friends, then it might be a problem but if she truly has no bad intention she would probably choose to wear less revealing clothes.

I see no issue with her asking you to break off contact with a crazy ex lol - who would want to deal with a crazy ex?

As for the secret msg part, I am not sure why you guys are still together? Have you set a proper boundary where you explained (not ultimatum) that you are uncomfortable with her doing that and to stop doing that?

If she disrespects your boundary repeatedly, then it's time to say goodbye lol.

no problem

my wifey got good feature but she dun wear reveal skin type

tight clothes, wont show panty line or camel toe, or reveal nipples, rare occasion top cleavage lol

quite classy, imagine tight top and tight jeans, or skirt

if u got it then flaunt it la

Just say slut.

she might not like.

but she might bear with it.

I am not saying you should tolerate her views.

But dont make it breakup reason.

This, only birgin unker in lowgat want their spouse to dress in full black dress covering head to toe

i found out bcoz i use whatsapp pc to monitor her chats - call me crazy stalker but knowing her past (she told me she was unhappily married with someone but remained faithful. i went to dig out previous chats, saw she was messaging guys, even got once said she took pregnancy pill already to another guy)

then when im monitoring , i realize every few months this ex dude will try to ask her out, sometimes she layan and say go drink teatime or something. but strictly teatime only because i realize the timing is just less than 1 hour , unles the guy can drink tea and pancut within 1 hour.

i got drop hints about my boundaries, like i tell her "my buddy found out his gf been meeting her ex, i told my buddy just pump n dump her bcoz she not worth it"
then she just say haha yalor .


but dun even bother to take action and block the ex.

so let me tell u guys, dun ever trust women 100%.... esp when her circle of friends also got such ppl (her close friend married to good husband who lets her become housewife , but she got a bf in china and she regularly flies there to meet up with him)
when i told her that her friend is not a good person, she raged and said why should i judge her friend, she has her own reasons, bla bla her friend needs her husband for financial support but maybe he is not good in bed, so she had to find someone to satisfy her.

im like, isnt this the very definition of a b1tch, u let 1 guy support u while u go let other guy piap u, if u were a proper woman u would have divorced the husband and go ask the piapping guy to support u. sometimes i feel damn sad, like imagine youre the husband having dinner with her friends, and everyone there knows u r green hatted but u r like a dumbass, trying to please her friends and all.. i dun wanna be like that person.

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 05:12 PM

if you're a control freak, it's best you stay single

if her parents also never control her like that thn what makes you can control her like that?
it only proves that you're insecure

most parents woudnt approve of how she dress lol, her parents passed away when she was young, so i think she has some issues from there. if her parents are still alive i think they would disapprove lol.



This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 05:10 PM

i think this picture applies here for everybody to see

lmao if she dress like photo on left id be ok. that clothing doesnt reveal anything , not even cleavage, why would someone not be ok with it.
she wears makeup daily she never leaves home without it, she even topup her lipstick before meeting people male or female, i dun even bother.

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 05:18 PM

i wonder if ppl replying her got waifu or gf, or thye just foreveralone wishing they have one.... it's like before i got waifu or gf i also feel like women very kesian, should be allowed to have multiple husbands or bf. till i understood the reality of it....

I think she can't tell the difference between classy sexy n slutty sexy. Immature little girls will always ops for the latter. Honestly I don't think she's marriage material at all based on her response towards yr remarks abt her dressing. If she can't even handle a small conflict like this, how is she gonna handle more serious matters in yr marriage? Also, is she even a good role model for yr future children?

If I were u, I'd dump her n look for someone who's more mature and actually cares my feelings.

damn, u r actually same age as her, but u sound much more mature

actually , fk it, youre right, why i dun just dump her. seriously too many red flags, that ive opened threads few times.

my ex gf i never had to monitor her chats before etc, because she gave that aura of trust.

this one, she tells me to trust her, etc etc, but when i monitor the chats, it seems diff from what she tells me. she got ask me, whether i went to budget hotel with my ex before, i said yes, then she got upset she said i should have just lied and denied it no matter what. and then i understood how she deals with things..... all lies are truths, until the real truth is admitted.

maybe it's just karma for me breaking up with my ex who is waifu material but I just lost feelings for her....

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 05:24 PM

What??? I really thought she was 23 or 25 🤣🤣🤣 Omg seriously, you can't be with this walking red flag who obviously has Peter Pan syndrome. You deserve better la.

As for yr ex, don't blame yourself for leaving her. Things happened for a reason.

omg thank you

from time to time, i think back and feel guilty about wasting her time.

we had a long relationship , and few years into it i realized it was not working out but i kept delaying the breakup because i wanted to see if we can still save it...

we broke up amicably, but i really feel guilty from time to time, when i think back, i realize she was a nice person but somehow i lost the feeling over time.. if i had just married her , i wouldnt be having all this thoughts like now being insecure and shit because she really didnt give me reasons to feel insecure.

but thank you, i rmbr when i told ppl my story mst women kept blaming me for wasting her time.

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 05:40 PM

How is it considered wasting her time when u were making the effort to save the relationship? You'd be the bad guy if u kept stringing her along just coz u were afraid to be lonely.

ts talk sexy subject but no drillz, riport 9 you.

Zaman sekarang semua banyak kuda atensi.. anyway still waiting for some drilz or at least example of what is too revealing to wear

She know how to dress herself well

TS should embrace it. Later graduate to swinging.

No policing, only tell waifu to take care, don accidentally reveal

Ayam came in, expecting Ukeke tered

Ayam has disappointed

Wear sexily, but not loosely.

Loose, like T shirt bend down ZG kaokao, those is kasi freebie makan.

Sexy, like open back or cleavage, but firmly hold and protected, that's class.

Not to show i tau bebanyak or sedikit or bullshittos, but have a betina that know how to dress and have a betina that dress how she knows is two entirely different matter.

Is this the same ccp woman from last time? Tempted to put the Don’t trust chyna meme right now…

She wear bikini @ beach? You bust a blood vessel? 😆

Know her well before settling. If you know she's the type to wear revealing/sexy, don't pull the trigger. Look elsewhere.

If you can accept/pretend to accept when gf, don't force when waifu...

beach diff story la everyone wear like that she won't stick out like sore thumb

So now I'm telling her while she my gf so that she decide if she wanna change or we agree to disagree or if I can't take it then we remain as fubu no marriage

Unfortunately it's true

Sigh I duno why but the stereotype is true

It's like can sell fake milk powder to babies then having an affair is kacang putih...nobody is physically hurt anyway.


Inb4 kalau tak tipu bukan....

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 06:36 PM

I am ok, janji at nite she let me piap.

Well, it's good that you iron things out before...

If your values don't align, if you don't like the way she is, and hope that she will change.
Oooh, that could be a recipe for disaster...

YES.

you must be type emm

usually type see all machem happy other ppl looking at their waifu punya downblouse and upskirt then they go back gegosok imagining how the other guys wanna eff their waifu

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 06:48 PM

I met my waifu when we were both in our mid-20's.

She's 1 year younger than me.

We got married just 6 months after our first date.

Very intense, passionate relationship so we decided might as well get married don't drag this thing for long otherwise later the fire might just burn out.

This year would be our 30th anniversary as husband and wife.


My then gf now waifu does not show too much skin back then, but she liked wearing very tight clothing

I suppose she knew that she had a great body, with all the right curves in the right places, so when you have it, flaunt it la

I know a lot of guys were also interested in her then. It doesn't hurt that she also has an exotic pretty face and beautiful hair.

Being the hamsap fella back then (and still is, in a way ), of course I don't mind her dressing. All the jocks can only see and drool, but I get to literally touch2 her . Cuntsidered I won the prize la

But after we got married, she toned down a bit. And after bearing children, no more skin tight clothing just dress decently


Cuntclusion: I DON'T police my waifu/gf dressing. A decent woman would know how to regulate herself

Apa hamsap /k mau.
Amoi lain wear ok…. Amoi sendiri wear cannot.

How can like that

No drill how to judge over or not.
But u keep control like this.
She tired, u also tired.

fk man, this kipitiam topics really kill brain cells

koyak all before even she has the chance to get out from the room

3some better.

Wow.. sounds angery todei yo.. why

we visited nudist resorts and saunas before.

no issue. when our bodies are tiptop and chiselled, its a flex.

if youre fat and ugly, pls cover up la

OK Part 2

Now some of the old geezers here might remember many years ago I strayed a bit and had an affair with an OPW.

17 years my junior, NL.

Dresses demurely, occasionally wears a tudong.

BUT

When she's out with me, her dressing can be considered quite provocative for our local society, and especially the NL community.

She usually wears a dress or skirt, with the hem ending above the knees. Always. Sometimes can be really short.

On top it will be something sleeveless/ tank top, sometimes a halterneck or spaghetti string.

Best part is under the dress/skirt, she'd go commando. Exposed shaved meow-meow. Except if she's having her period.

Initially she still wears a bra, because she's worried that her pointy nips would look pronounced if she goes without. I then introduced her to the idea of using pasties, and after that she went totally braless.

Going out with her would be a persistent hard-on session for me, as I know "what lies underneath", so our public outings would usually be very short as we would be frequently going back to the hotel room to relieve both my hard-ons and her well-lubricated horny pussy.

This went on for a few years, but good things don't last forever. Both our partners had sensed something amiss, so we had to stop seeing each other for a while although we still sent each other "dirty horny messages" and explicit photos and videos.

Eventually she and her husband divorced, and she had to move back to her hometown as her mother was unwell. We were still in contact but minimised as I do not want my missus to start digging again, AND since she's now single again and hinting. We still meet but only 2-3 times per year for non-stop sexy sessions, but finally we reduced our contacts which was facilitated by the Covid lockdowns, and no longer in contact these last few years. All in it lasted about 12 years.

Cuntclusion: I DO NOT my gf's clothing (OK la - maybe "encouraging" towards a certain "style":drool: )

This post has been edited by ugakgedik: May 8 2025, 09:36 PM

there are a few clues....

1. is she dressing for you or herself?
2. when she dress that way is she expecting other guys to notice her? is she kuda attensi?
3. when dressing like that and out with you she focus on you more or focus on her phone?
4. when dressing like that and out with you she ok ok only with you then enjoy attention from other guys? like sudden glow up and smile?
5. does she avoid or reduce piaping wif u a lot after u try to control her?

eh ur avatar mcm familiar
what anime?

It is Dorothy from Nikke