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cuddlybubblyteddy
post May 8 2025, 10:52 AM

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QUOTE(max_cavalera @ May 8 2025, 10:24 AM)
How old? 1-3 years old is too small. Reccommend start sending to playschool/preschool starting 4 years old.

I send my daughter at 4 years old to a playschool.

Develop their fine motor skills. Starting 5-6 years old only sent to really learning preschool.

I noticed she picked up reading, writing and simple math fairly quickly at 5th years old.

She Turn out just fine.
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My Daugther attending Montessori playschool at 26 months, we decided to let her go to playschool since she can talk and express herself what she want, what she don’t like.

Now, she’s a speech monster, even more talkative and can structure sentences well enough at 3 years old.

Learn to Make friend, fight, be friend again with her classmate lol

She can count, read abc, and sing nursery song

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post May 9 2025, 12:48 PM

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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ May 9 2025, 10:12 AM)
Montessori is good

but if you are planning to send them to chinese school, montessori and learning chinese contradict.
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Unfortunately she speak 0 Chinese (although I’m Chinese and speak Chinese with my parent and sibling)

Still undecided to send her to Chinese medium, or sk or international school
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post May 9 2025, 12:53 PM

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QUOTE(Mel2 @ May 9 2025, 08:11 AM)
80% of a child’s brain develops by age of three. It’s during these years that the child’s brain begins to develop memory, language, thinking and reasoning skills.

They learn by imitating the behavior of others, especially adults and older children. It can also be a trying time, as they begin to show defiant behaviour and set out to explore the world around them.

Children grow up very fast.

Parents should focus on them, during their first 3 years. Enjoy playing, singing, laughing or even crying with them. They learn very fast. But their attention span is short.

For me, parents are always the best teachers.

If want to try sending them to those special classes, no harm trying. There is always something new to learn.

Just don't be too kiasu, make your child to be better than others..... every child is different.  Some just want to learn slowly.... some are quick learners.
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My Daugther now keep asking why on thing, example I told her cannot so this , do that. She will ask why?

Have to explain slowly , like you do this, you will fall, when you fall, what happen? You will boo boo pain, do you want boo boo pain?

If it’s my parent generation , first thing will kena is rotan

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post May 10 2025, 07:05 AM

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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ May 9 2025, 04:10 PM)
montesorri very hard to teach kids to write chinese strokes and radicals.

kids who love montessori and freedom to learn (based on liking), usually dislike learning chinese because have to memorize many strokes.

correct if I am wrong, but my perception is that mandarin usually involve a lot of repeated practice. Kids usually don't like to do this unless they are forced to keep repeating. This is not what Montesorri teaches.
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I was sent to English medium kindergarten at 5, then SK .. speak Chinese at home, speak Malay and English at school.
Did learn basic Chinese at primary -> han yu pin yin , and only into adulthood now really learn to read Chinese (because of working environment) but still mostly use google translate lol

I did heard Chinese medium school will be tough, my Daugther personality now is outspoken, independent, more mature than kid around her age, playful, still listen to us and respect (mostly my wife the enforcer)

QUOTE(Calvin Seak @ May 10 2025, 07:30 AM)
NGiaww so cute! Haha I can't wait for this period to come
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Why wife already got annoyed sometimes. So many questions why. Why why why lol

If you don’t have patience , you gonna feel annoying too



 

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