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How losing your Dad at a young age impacted you?
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SUSkopitiamtardx
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May 5 2025, 08:36 AM, updated 8 months ago
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I lost my dad at around 15 Years old... i was just seeing the "real" world at that time... But losing my dad at that age just motivated me to study harder and try to get into University. In the end i am OK now i guess... the only issue i am having probably is with authoritative males in my work place. I hate being instructed by some middle aged or boomers at my workplace. how about you guys?
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Starbucki
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May 5 2025, 08:43 AM
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Which uni and wad course you tooked?
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ShadowR1
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May 5 2025, 08:59 AM
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Lost my dad when Im 15, harden me up and made me who I am today.
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Akmall540
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May 5 2025, 09:00 AM
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my father died when i was 16 years old.
i dont have any daddy issues whatsoever. i ended up ok i guess. now i am the eldest for my family. my mother died in 2022.
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Ukeke
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May 5 2025, 09:00 AM
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QUOTE(ShadowR1 @ May 5 2025, 08:59 AM) Lost my dad when Im 15, harden me up and made me who I am today. Can elaborate?
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poco loco
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May 5 2025, 09:02 AM
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never had a dad in my life yo
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RT8081
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May 5 2025, 09:04 AM
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mine at age 5. No father figure to guide yet i survived
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Silfer
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May 5 2025, 09:10 AM
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QUOTE(Akmall540 @ May 5 2025, 09:00 AM) my father died when i was 16 years old. i dont have any daddy issues whatsoever. i ended up ok i guess. now i am the eldest for my family. my mother died in 2022. daddy issue more obvious in female counterpart. guys got but not as bad as girl. but condolences to you
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poco loco
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May 5 2025, 09:14 AM
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QUOTE(RT8081 @ May 5 2025, 09:04 AM) mine at age 5. No father figure to guide yet i survived wah we same same Attached thumbnail(s)
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RT8081
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May 5 2025, 09:21 AM
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QUOTE(poco loco @ May 5 2025, 09:14 AM) Yeap, still remember all the dads picked up their kids or took them for holiday except mine lol Ah well, that experience made me a better dad for my kid 😄
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wchinwai
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May 5 2025, 09:25 AM
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QUOTE(Akmall540 @ May 5 2025, 09:00 AM) my father died when i was 16 years old. i dont have any daddy issues whatsoever. i ended up ok i guess. now i am the eldest for my family. my mother died in 2022. condolences and stay strong!
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red_satu
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May 5 2025, 09:27 AM
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Lost my dad at 8. I guess it caused me to not really have a father figure to guide me and a lot of men stuff I had to figure out on my own.
At least better than my a year older brother that developed depression, bipolar disorder and schizophrenia.
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immobile
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May 5 2025, 09:28 AM
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QUOTE(RT8081 @ May 5 2025, 09:21 AM) Yeap, still remember all the dads picked up their kids or took them for holiday except mine lol Ah well, that experience made me a better dad for my kid 😄 this is true, damm what would i give just to have a powerful, influential or rich father. if i have a father like vincent tan/nazri azri/ismail sabri, how nice would it be and truly a blessing.. son grew weed (literally like real drug lab), one call to papa, police and authorities have no choice but to let go....now this is power & influence.... source: https://sabahkini2.org/en/news/4511/kes-dad...rdiam-diri/view"Life is a dream for the wise, a game for the fool, a comedy for the rich, a tragedy for the poor." - Sholem Aleichem
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RT8081
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May 5 2025, 09:32 AM
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QUOTE(immobile @ May 5 2025, 09:28 AM) this is true, damm what would i give just to have a powerful, influential or rich father. if i have a father like vincent tan/nazri azri/ismail sabri, how nice would it be and truly a blessing.. son grew weed (literally like real drug lab), one call to papa, police and authorities have no choice but to let go....now this is power & influence.... source: https://sabahkini2.org/en/news/4511/kes-dad...rdiam-diri/view"Life is a dream for the wise, a game for the fool, a comedy for the rich, a tragedy for the poor." - Sholem Aleichem Lol, lucky i never had such dad. Imagine relatives plotting for your dad's money
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SUSkopitiamtardx
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May 5 2025, 09:36 AM
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QUOTE(Starbucki @ May 5 2025, 08:43 AM) Which uni and wad course you tooked? UM Engineering.
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immobile
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May 5 2025, 09:41 AM
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QUOTE(RT8081 @ May 5 2025, 09:32 AM) Lol, lucky i never had such dad. Imagine relatives plotting for your dad's money "It's better to cry in Rolls Royce than to be happy on a bicycle." - Patrizia Reggianiat least, they are definitely in better shoes comparing to us citizens throughout the whole covid pandemic till today with rapid rise cost of living. so many of us suffered so much throughout the covid pandemic in terms of health, financial, family and so on.....
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RT8081
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May 5 2025, 09:43 AM
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QUOTE(immobile @ May 5 2025, 09:41 AM) "It's better to cry in Rolls Royce than to be happy on a bicycle." - Patrizia Reggianiat least, they are definitely in better shoes comparing to us citizens throughout the whole covid pandemic till today with rapid rise cost of living. so many of us suffered so much throughout the covid pandemic in terms of health, financial, family and so on..... Yeah they do but happiness ? Not really la. Seen it and am glad not into their lives
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Akmall540
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May 5 2025, 09:46 AM
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QUOTE(wchinwai @ May 5 2025, 09:25 AM) condolences and stay strong! It is ok. Im now almost 40 years old and my late father died when he was 42 years old. For me growing up without father is a blessing in disguise because I can explore the world by myself without any input from my father. I felt that i become matured faster than my friends with the same age as me.
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Mr.Ballz
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May 5 2025, 09:47 AM
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just losed mine last year Christmas. Age 30, a sudden change from boy to man.
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