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 housewife anxious about husband 7k salary(+BM/EN), Social media created anxiety to waifu.

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burn22
post May 2 2025, 06:39 PM

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bila kahwin, guy must know her needs.
can say, most pompuan luv travelling. bila see other friends posting their adventures kat social media, am sure, she wants the same adventure... to show to her friends too. gal tak salah, just a little selfish. so, in future, bila nak cari awek, make sure of her needs. luv n trust is just a word, so as marriage certificate, just a piece of paper...


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post May 2 2025, 06:39 PM

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QUOTE(Aztec @ May 2 2025, 06:12 PM)
i dont get why people are clowning on her. i have had talks with my friends around literally the same topics.

at least she is honest with herself. no blame on the guy as well, its not easy in todays society with all the expectations that has been put on us. what he is giving her is what the majority of men can provide. her views have just been distorted by social media.
she is having buyers remorse after realizing she might have made a mistake.
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The moment she posted it to socmed, she already tried to get validation and ppl to support of her thoughts.


But unfortunately the posting got backfired, which is good 👍
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post May 2 2025, 06:40 PM

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QUOTE(burn22 @ May 2 2025, 06:39 PM)
bila kahwin, guy must know her needs.
can say, most pompuan luv travelling. bila see other friends posting their adventures kat social media, am sure, she wants the same adventure... to show to her friends too. gal tak salah, just a little selfish. so, in future, bila nak cari awek, make sure of her needs. luv n trust is just a word, so as marriage certificate, just a piece of paper...
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In short for men, don't marreid a burden devil.gif
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post May 2 2025, 06:43 PM

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no kids

better divorce asap
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post May 2 2025, 06:44 PM

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No mention if the wife is at work or a full time leach?

This post has been edited by jojolicia: May 2 2025, 06:46 PM
AfraidIGotBan
post May 2 2025, 06:44 PM

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QUOTE(killdavid @ May 2 2025, 07:56 AM)
many red flags:
- complain no yearly vacation
-unsecure affected by social media
- envious of other people's happiness and want what they have
- What does she bring to the table ?
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She still fertile enuf to peram a telur out maybe.

Damn wimmin, lucky my waifu also day day watch Kdrama play with my three setan and shop luxury often, but I dun see my wife complain duit got issue.

Deswai guise, when you wanna kahwin, find one machiam my CCP wife.

Instead of makan luar, she prefer masak home and eat.
Instead of day day think of luxury mana satu wanna buy, she hentam hard on one or few of the good one.
Instead of following those bitches out there bitching where and what and how to make their laki life hard, she's just go along with flow.
Instead of cari pesal, she solve pesal. My wife takes parenting to the maximum, aka She handle my family and her family side, leaving me only needed to go work earn money come back peluk peluk, if can, piap, if not, simply sit on garden play with lawn also wokey.

This post has been edited by AfraidIGotBan: May 2 2025, 06:45 PM
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post May 2 2025, 06:45 PM

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wife give good service? maybe can offer service for part time money
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post May 2 2025, 06:45 PM

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She is already 30 years old, tak kan tak tau how the social media game work?
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post May 2 2025, 06:48 PM

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No kids and not working, so much time to overthink things and make life complicated.

Women.
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post May 2 2025, 06:50 PM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ May 2 2025, 09:34 AM)
I see

My opinion:

Not everyone will go through hard time with their spouse.
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My wife go through bad times with me.

Deswai now life got better liao, I work outside also I buy grocery, I cook and clean, I do dishes, and settle everything. I still feel terrible for making her go to IVF several times just to ensure we can have three demon spawn of mine, which is now leeching on all her attention and life while I go work.

Today, if she suddenly say La Prairie got new face cream, later I order selfridge. If she say Sunlight very panas, tmr I buy Dyson fan for her. If she say tonight mouth itchy wanna eat wagyu, Even loan a piece from those posh restaurant I know also I'll bring back a piece home and cook for her to eat.

Unless she say mau raw live prawns or abalone, then I bobian la no excuse to fulfill.
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post May 2 2025, 06:51 PM

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QUOTE(burn22 @ May 2 2025, 06:39 PM)
bila kahwin, guy must know her needs.
can say, most pompuan luv travelling. bila see other friends posting their adventures kat social media, am sure, she wants the same adventure... to show to her friends too. gal tak salah, just a little selfish. so, in future, bila nak cari awek, make sure of her needs. luv n trust is just a word, so as marriage certificate, just a piece of paper...
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Find a girl who likes to stay at home type, not sociable.
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post May 2 2025, 06:52 PM

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QUOTE(Fantasia @ May 2 2025, 10:45 AM)
She is already 30 years old, tak kan tak tau how the social media game work?
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Everything in SOCmed is real.

Having an opis in the core of Londonistan's Chinatown allowed me to see all the real tiktok, socmed, photo shared, foodtok, whatever taken on daily basis, and how insta and planned, made, choreographed, etc.

Even the musician or dancer or whatever that machiam suddenly "WOAH Chinatown street show suddenly ohhh!!!" video is all planned, people pushed off, camera set, action punya.

In life, what also can be sohai, dun take what you see as real can reduce the sohai defect by 99.98%
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post May 2 2025, 06:53 PM

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When i got my first born. My income is 2900 and my wife still doing her master and working as a RA with 1.8k income.

Were doing ok . Renting in puchong.

Now after 3rd child and household income over 20k edy.

The lesson is manage ur lifestyle. Always priorities NEED over everything else. Dont make useless loans. And u will be ok.

Income will raise with time.



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post May 2 2025, 06:58 PM

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Just divorce her.

Ungrateful.
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post May 2 2025, 06:59 PM

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QUOTE(SuperGampang @ May 2 2025, 06:53 PM)
When i got my first born. My income is 2900 and my wife still doing her master and working as a RA with 1.8k income.

Were doing ok . Renting in puchong.

Now after 3rd child and household income over 20k edy.

The lesson is manage ur lifestyle. Always priorities NEED over everything else. Dont make useless loans. And u will be ok.

Income will raise with time.
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live within your mean, then you are fine

don't try to impress people who doesn't matter anyway
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post May 2 2025, 07:00 PM

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QUOTE(annoymous1234 @ May 2 2025, 10:51 AM)
Find a girl who likes to stay at home type, not sociable.
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Later turn PSYCHO.

The proper advise is Find one that ngam you, not you die die tried to ngam her.

My experience with plenty msian wimmin and reason are because "suspect preggie" "Model-like" "Educated" "Good background" "Language learner" "Friend's ex" "Big borgh" "religious believer"

None sane. All giler. Giler as in nothing taken care of. Except can piap what also useless.
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post May 2 2025, 07:03 PM

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This one amoi or awek? I lean toward awek cause amoi will think of figure make that money baru think vacation awek b40 must gaya even if no moneh

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post May 2 2025, 07:11 PM

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QUOTE(AfraidIGotBan @ May 2 2025, 06:50 PM)
My wife go through bad times with me.

Deswai now life got better liao, I work outside also I buy grocery, I cook and clean, I do dishes, and settle everything. I still feel terrible for making her go to IVF several times just to ensure we can have three demon spawn of mine, which is now leeching on all her attention and life while I go work.

Today, if she suddenly say La Prairie got new face cream, later I order selfridge. If she say Sunlight very panas, tmr I buy Dyson fan for her. If she say tonight mouth itchy wanna eat wagyu, Even loan a piece from those posh restaurant I know also I'll bring back a piece home and cook for her to eat.

Unless she say mau raw live prawns or abalone, then I bobian la no excuse to fulfill.
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Good for you. I duno about myself with this taiwan guy but when i see him reach at room so late until midnight (i blv him working 100%, don't ask me why) i feel pain for him and hoping i can do something.

I actually told him that in future whether you are rich or poor, i will be with you and work hard as well lol..

Many women might said i dont mind if he poor but in the end complain.. I don't want be in this category.

What i m sure of he is 100% worth. 😂 so i better walk the talk

This post has been edited by nicole_4ever: May 2 2025, 07:14 PM
pakmulau
post May 2 2025, 07:22 PM

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7k for two more than enough la

Beli kereta rumah vacation once a year pun cukup
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post May 2 2025, 07:23 PM

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QUOTE(lordgamer3 @ May 2 2025, 07:03 PM)
This one amoi or awek? I lean toward awek cause amoi will think of figure make that money baru think vacation awek b40 must gaya even if no moneh
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Amoi lah, already wrote it's mandarin source page at first line. sweat.gif

But the issue is the type, not the race. The comment section are also bashing on her mindset.

Blinded by greed and jealousy. And then regret marry for love, unlike her social group friends marry for bread.
The bread picker sometimes has to tolerate husband cheats or mistreats from them.
Since they can't stand downgrading to the poorer version that they used to be or pride/fear to divorce.


This post has been edited by ZlkOk: May 2 2025, 07:25 PM

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