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 How much do you give at a Malay wedding?

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TSgoolie
post May 2 2025, 10:24 AM, updated 8 months ago

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How much to give the ang bao if you're not attending the Malay wedding? Would it be OK if we transfer them via duitnow/ TnG ewallet?
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post May 2 2025, 10:26 AM

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I gib 50 coz most of them don’t give angpau. Just show up makan and chow and usually done at thier house or some Dewan orang ramai. Food usually cincai cook

Unless in hotel then up to 100 per person


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post May 2 2025, 10:29 AM

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my last wedding ceremony, I gave RM100
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post May 2 2025, 10:30 AM

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depends on location, venue and how close u r with the groom/bride

like if in KL and do in 5 star hotel and u best buddies with the couple and they helangs, give RM50 only sounds very kedekut kot
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post May 2 2025, 10:31 AM

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Depends... RM10 okay, RM100 also okay. No give also okay. Not compulsory.
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post May 2 2025, 10:31 AM

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Rm50 per head
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post May 2 2025, 10:32 AM

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post May 2 2025, 10:34 AM

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Usually the amount is lower for Malay kenduri vs Chinese dinners.

Around 10+ years back, some friends of my pushed back a RM50 ang pow saying too much. Nowadays maybe should be ok. RM100 donno.

If the reception is in a hotel, then you have to play by ear. Ask anyone else going how much they are planning to give lor. Or ask your waifu to ask, usually they are better at this sort of things lol.
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post May 2 2025, 10:37 AM

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post May 2 2025, 10:41 AM

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Depends how close you are to them. if no close RM50/100 also ok
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post May 2 2025, 10:47 AM

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post May 2 2025, 10:52 AM

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RM10. If i bring my family, maybe could be RM50.
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post May 2 2025, 11:01 AM

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Typically, a Malay wedding is optional to give angpow, and the budget is up to you. no right or wrong

But personally, for me, non-family & relatives I give around RM50 (non-hotel) and around RM100- 200 (hotel)


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post May 2 2025, 11:02 AM

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Malay wedding don't need to give money la. Just a gift la.
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post May 2 2025, 11:06 AM

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can't remember when last time go wedding.
i think maybe 50-100 can edi for the city hall venue.
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post May 2 2025, 11:06 AM

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Rumah - 200-300
Hotel - 300-500
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post May 2 2025, 11:24 AM

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Normally if I go alone RM3. If two person RM5. Nothing much to eat, small daging n sayur. Drink also air manis.

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