Hi guys, sort of at a crossroads here, anyone here can give me life and career advice here, will dm about my personal situation

This post has been edited by cocomaru: Apr 30 2025, 03:07 PM

ok PM

Good luck to you.

I'm not a psychologist or psychiatrist, so not good at advising people.

May PM

But only if you are ready to talk, and listen too.

Just post here in tered lor and look at what harsh word people replied you.

Always takes other people's rant as your lesson and be grateful you havent reach that stage or seen people jatuh masuk d. At least that way you can hop and skip kantoi lose inside the same chasm.

Not a good advisor, but can listen if need.

It'll be much easier to just post here then to reply to 10 different DM
Imagine repeating yourself 10 times

DM me
Relax bro

Just call befrienders 603-76272929

just post here. We dont know you personally so we wouldnt judge you personally and make you more stress. just relax, we are all here can advise you and share our experience and wisdom (if there's any wisdom to share)

Where your location?

KL bro

waiting for u, take ur time

hmm, you gotta be willing to listen though
and then take steps to give things a try

it's easier to ask for advise, but very difficult to take action

Yes,ok to dm?

come, let's talk if u still feel like it.

Why not just share here? I doubt U are in worst situation compared to me

okay, pm telegram, i talk to you

Here is serious kopitiam. Less troll. Even some troll take it with a pinch of salt and just listen to those more genuine.

Some cover their genuine good hearted response with some snide. Look pass it.

Without knowing your problem. The person you pm may not even have an opinion on it. Might as well get multiple opinions on it.

Come pm.

Come pm me

Post here la. Ayam don't troll in serious k

what problem ? relationship ?, financial ? work ? health problem I cant help go see doctor

Post here.
We can also read others replies and top up. More constructive. If u wan dm like this, better to meet up personally

if u cant even post here,means u cant really take critizem,learn to filter. dont pm me,just saying

I do suggest you post here publicly. Its in serious kopitiam, so you won't get trolled.

However if you really don't feel comfortable doing so, feel free to DM me.

Your 1st step.

Be open of yourself if you need to be heard, be told.

Post here, you can read pointers given and counters by others.

Your choice. All the best.

This post has been edited by jojolicia: May 1 2025, 02:35 PM

Go ask bazi sifu might help guide you to correct path

yes TS. please post it here. we all would like to understand your situation here

Whats up. KL where, I buy you lunch if nearby

as you grow mature, you will realize you don't need people to understand you. Because everyone has their own script and lens seeing the world. Their advices will not suit your current condition or where you would want to go now

So you may just cherry picking which advice is *exactly* suit you unconsciously. But overall, if you want to completely change any aspect of your life, you've to modify your mental model

Talk to a certified psychotherapist.

Mens' problem mainly got 3
Money
Woman
Career

New add for family men : Parent-Wife relationship

None of the above is also a problem for some.
Add another money.

Not trolling. Just speaking the truth.

In general category,

parent-wife under women
career under money

so all the while it is either money or women or both only, but one thing for sure money could solve a lot of problems including women

if curious click TS topic oredi can agak