married because want to give IC to the kids
or else, there's not really benefits

let me know if you know anybody does it
cause I find it refreshing

within the animal kingdom (humans included)
some species area naturally born monogamous, and some poly
humans are termed 'socially monogamous' .......whether naturally MONO or not kita lagi tau from experience
don't really care how the narrative goes, matter of opinion only perhaps.......by nature no need to say la ya - we know very well where humans stand in the equation
as to whether humans behave within these constraints of marriage is not for me to dictate, from what we know, some do, some don't (80-90% of the time, men yg buat hal, rarely both parties / the lady)
how many of you actually married your first love?
monogamous animals stick to ONLY ONE till death

so many cool stories within this tered can see pattern of men n women when put under "special" conditions how they behave, and i don't blame em.
Suka sama suka apa mau buat - piap je la, where to get a better win-win scenario

if both parties wanna enjoy life the swinging way then by all means as long it doesn't hurt anyone - JALAN!

some say it's common here, i won't say don't have but i won't also say it's rampant/common.

#makelovenotwar

Why hv kids?
It is harming the kid. Imagine the shame and emotional burden it bring to kids when parents affair are being exposed

Parenting is not for everyone

Lol you mean Cecelia Cheung hk?
Hahaha

because parents today take that status too seriously
most people actually just want companionship but parents want "official"
so u can see a lot of parents forced their kids to get married before 30 but it's clearly not what they wanted
so they got married by name only

Any parents that do so......

yeah like wtf
I only realized like most people want the status but they may not be fully equipped to hold responsibility to maintain a long term relationship

A lot of shitty guy and immature girl will seek status from other person because they are feeling insecure from the start

you think the kids should feel shameful
but other people are not feeling the same

From the roomie list. We have to insert our names in an excel file.

nanti end up divorced like the cuck streamer destiny

What is DD

search for swingers

Those two gotta be attention seekers

meanwhile ts still fap with hand

drug and disease free aka no std etc etc, must prove with health report free of any std / hiv before doing the sex from what i heard in swingers party

not surprise with the both requirement especially the endowed one

Cannot understand what u trying to bring across
My point is if one does not plan to uphold the faithful in upcoming marriage, then marriage in first place?

Then u bring the point of want to have kids which I think bad idea. Kids would be shamed if parents are found to be in open relationship. High chance also ruined the life view of the kid

You have done ur homework

Keen join?

i know one guru besar in a school in my town, her husband affair with their young maid, so she revenge have affair with a young guy... (merrid too)

This post has been edited by terradrive: Apr 30 2025, 06:57 AM