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post Apr 29 2025, 12:18 PM, updated 8 months ago

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Life is like a stimulation GTA
whatever external things like money family kids women
they don't ultimately enhance your value as a human being
they may give you a temporary ego boost
but when you're attached
when you're are happy, you rely on dopamine kicks
when you're sad, you will easily self attack or even do public harm

in Buddhism, there's this concept called non differentiation
when you're being trapped by own senses
(Eye, ear, nose, mouth, body, will)
you're not living as a true being

when you think of being yourself as the player, not the character itself. You can make better decisions. However, most people are being enslaved by their own karma or subconscious power.

Discuss.
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post Apr 29 2025, 12:26 PM

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QUOTE(vaksin @ Apr 29 2025, 12:21 PM)
interesting perspective.
i think some how related to everyone.
just try to live a good & meaningful life
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most people are not being objective
they have their own opinions, hence the "Me" idea becomes strengthened, and the more we have own opinions, the stronger ego will make the person unable to see the big picture anymore

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post Apr 29 2025, 12:31 PM

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QUOTE(COOLPINK @ Apr 29 2025, 12:26 PM)
Agree with TS, not easy and not everyone will be able to achieve tat level of mindset though.
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the sky is big that it can let the white and dark cloud to stay on by themselves. Once you realize that the nature has more wisdom than a typical human being. You'll realize how foolish most people can be.
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post Apr 29 2025, 12:39 PM

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QUOTE(COOLPINK @ Apr 29 2025, 12:37 PM)
Human ego and greed is not easily overcome my fren....
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post Apr 29 2025, 02:00 PM

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QUOTE(nihility @ Apr 29 2025, 01:14 PM)
But 人情, when it flows naturally and sincerely, without being abused or exploited, is not a burden — it is a blessing.
It is one of the most beautiful aspects of being alive. It binds us to one another, gives meaning to our actions, and brings warmth to the human experience.
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So open relationship can not be a fault?
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post Apr 29 2025, 03:53 PM

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QUOTE(incognitroll @ Apr 29 2025, 02:35 PM)
if you hold a gun and i hold a gun, we can talk about the law. if you hold a knife and i hold a knife, we can talk about rules. if you come empty-handed, and i come empty-handed, we can talk about reason. if you hold a gun and i only have a knife, then the truth lies in your hand. if you have a gun and i have nothing, then what you hold in your hands isn’t just a weapon, it’s my life.

the concepts of law, rules, and morality only hold meaning if they are based on equality. the harsh truth of this world is that when money speaks, truth goes silent, and when power speaks, even money takes three steps back. those who create the rules are often the first to break them. for rules are chains for the weak and tools for the strong.

in this world, anything good must be fought for. the masters of the game are fiercely competing for resources, while the weak sit idly, waiting to be given a share; and for the weak, don’t celebrate too early when you’re handed a small piece of the pie. the strong might come for it later, asking for something in return... a request you cannot refuse.
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If you describe it as a red pill sense, it can be correct.
However it's still black and white, there's no inherent depth behind it
everyone can stare on a phone screen and justifies what's black and white however they lost their souls along the way
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post Apr 30 2025, 01:22 PM

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QUOTE(cuddlybubblyteddy @ Apr 30 2025, 11:03 AM)
Pancut aja dalam when you are ready

That’s the best advice in my life
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probably worst decision to get someone accidental pregnant and you feel shameful to not asking the girl abort her kid
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post Apr 30 2025, 01:40 PM

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QUOTE(Pewufod @ Apr 29 2025, 11:16 PM)
Ts life all about women women and women
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pussy is the primary motivating force around human history
It basically fulfills all sixth senses

eye (see hot girl)
ear (hear a girl moan)
nose (smell good fragrant body)
mouth (taste good pussy)
body (doggy a tight pussy)
will (the feeling of ownership and domination of a live body)

the rest of human doings are just for wayang only
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post Apr 30 2025, 02:42 PM

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QUOTE(incognitroll @ Apr 29 2025, 05:04 PM)
in contrast, Huineng, the founder of Zen Buddhism and now recognized as the Sixth Patriarch, offered this response:

菩提本无树,明镜亦非台。
本来无一物,何处惹尘埃。

Translation:
Bodhi has no tree by nature,
The bright mirror is not a stand.
Originally, there is not a single thing —
Where can dust possibly land?

not claiming to be on either of their levels, nowhere near it in fact. just sharing a bit of reflection, in case it's something you'd like to explore too...
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It's similar to the concept of emptiness in buddhism
it's not entirely feeling empty, but a person self nature can generate a lot of possibilities, and in order to live more truthfully, one can act like a mirror, whatever substance that shows up you just show it when it leaves you don't leave any traces
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post May 2 2025, 01:48 PM

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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ May 2 2025, 11:36 AM)
I get this from my boss in my early 20s after graduate from college, he told me on my last day working with him before come to KL.

"Money cannot buy everything but can buy many things."

Back then i thought the "money can buy many things" is like houses, cars, travelling etc. Now that i make some friends, seen quite a lot of things and learn from it. Then i began to understand, the " money can buy many things" is not only refers to things with price tag, but also solving problems like bail or bribery...
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money is just a tool, there's no difference between a rich and poor people, only human acts define it by logics, there's no deep meaning because the degree of sufferings can just be different only

 

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