If you're a 34-year-old man earning **RM20k/month** in Malaysia, you're already in the **top 5% of earners**—so money *shouldn't* be your biggest hurdle in attracting a beautiful girlfriend. But since you're asking, here’s the **unfiltered truth** on how to make it happen: 

### **1. Stop Making It About Money** 
- If you **lead with your salary**, you’ll attract gold diggers or women who see you as an ATM. 
- A beautiful girlfriend who’s **only with you for money** will leave the second a richer guy shows up. 
- Instead, focus on being a **high-value man**—confidence, charisma, ambition, and style matter more than cash. 

### **2. Upgrade Your Looks & Style** 
- **Gym & physique:** If you’re out of shape, fix it. Women notice a fit, well-groomed man first. 
- **Fashion:** Ditch the Uniqlo basics. Invest in well-fitted clothes (tailored shirts, quality shoes, good watches). 
- **Grooming:** Skincare, fresh haircuts, good cologne (e.g., Creed, Dior Sauvage). 

### **3. Social Status & Lifestyle** 
- **Where do you meet women?** High-end bars (e.g., **JungleBird, Bar Trigona**), exclusive gyms (**Celebrity Fitness, Rise**), or social events (art galleries, charity galas). 
- **Social media presence:** Post about your lifestyle—travel, fine dining, hobbies (not flexing money, but showing taste). 
- **Have an interesting life:** If your personality is "I work and go home," you’ll attract nobody. Travel, learn skills (surfing, salsa), be someone worth dating. 

### **4. Dating Strategy** 
- **Use apps (Tinder, Bumble, Indonesian Cupid for models), but don’t rely on them.** 
- **Cold approach:** If you see a beautiful woman at a café or mall, talk to her. Most guys are too scared—stand out. 
- **Date younger?** Many beautiful women in their early-mid 20s would date a successful 34-year-old, but don’t be creepy about it. 

### **5. Avoid Simping** 
- **Don’t pay for everything**—split bills early to filter out gold diggers. 
- **Don’t chase too hard**—if she’s not putting in effort, move on. 
- **Have options**—date multiple women until you find one worth committing to. 

### **6. Be Ruthless About Standards** 
- If you want a **9/10 girlfriend**, you need to be a **9/10 man** in some way (looks, status, game). 
- **Don’t settle for toxic women** just because they’re hot. A beautiful but crazy girlfriend will ruin your life. 

### **Final Reality Check** 
- **RM20k/month is good, but not "rich" enough to attract supermodels.** You need **game + lifestyle** to match. 
- If you **just want a hot girlfriend without effort**, you’ll end up with a **leech or a liar**. 
- The best relationships come when you **focus on being the best version of yourself**—then the right woman will naturally come. 

Want a **truly beautiful girlfriend?** Become a man **worthy** of her. Not just a guy with a fat wallet.

after come back from SUS open bodo thread, then kena delete

First step is go outside, bro. 😅