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TSsense_less143
post Nov 11 2007, 08:40 PM, updated 18y ago

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I'm gonna be honest and say that I'm kinda sick of the pattern of threads in Girls' Club. It's all about improving our appearance, how-to-please-your-man-more talks, and sex talks, which is OF COURSE infected by guys, which beats the whole purpose of Girls Club in the first place.

I know I'm gonna be receiving lots of bashing for this, but I don't really care; I'm sure there's lots of girls out there who feels the same way as me. Why can't we talk about more serious stuff? Do our lives center around guys that much? Are we helpless without them? No, of course not. I'm not starting on equality and gender issues here but GIRLS, have some dignity!

Why are we talking about private parts and sex before marriage with guys we don't even know in a public forum? Seriously?

So, to start things of, I'd like to talk about a neutral topic. Pick a topic which doesnt center on guys OR sex. Any topic.

I'm a gamer, I love Dave Barry (the author), stand-up comedies, Peter Pan, and my pet sugar glider, Wasabi.

See, that wasn't too hard. Your turn. Sharing is caring.

This post has been edited by sense_less143: Nov 25 2007, 08:32 PM
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post Nov 12 2007, 12:05 AM

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QUOTE(Drian @ Nov 11 2007, 09:40 PM)
There's a serious lack of participation from girls in the Real World Issue section so I won't be surprise if most girls are not interested in more serious issues anyway. Perhaps getting pretty and getting a rich husband@"Mr Right" are more important for most girls.
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oh?

I really dont want to turn this thread into another guy-bashing thread, because goodness we all know males are already being bashed in real life.

I'm sorry, I dont mean it that way. peace.

Plus, I'm not looking for that kind of serious talk. that belongs there, whether there are or there aren't enough women there is not really my concern. I'm just sick of the normal threads. I figured Girls Talk should center on women issues. not whether i should keep the bloody condom on or off.

Anyway, who's Jit?


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post Nov 12 2007, 07:36 PM

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QUOTE(misao @ Nov 12 2007, 06:00 PM)

However, TS, it's true that everything else is mostly covered by other subtopics also. I mean, personally if I were to want to talk about games, I'd actually go to Gamers' Hideout right?

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Yea, that's true. That's why I post in Nintendo also smile.gif

I'm just saying, is there *any* other things that we girls can talk about that is not about guys and sex?

Shopping is cool. Make-up is cool. I have no problem with either of them. It makes us look good and makes us feel good. But then again when you talk about which make-up will make him fall for you more.. well that makes me gag. That's just my two cents.

And lets not make this a sexist forum. I like guys. But hey, Girls Club is for who again?

Did you know? A research says that when girls dress up, it's actually for the eyes of other girls. It's interesting isn't it?

Haha I'm just happy there's other girls who feel the same way as me, so *hugs*
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post Nov 12 2007, 09:01 PM

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err whats dragon raje n vleus?
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post Nov 12 2007, 11:51 PM

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hey, I'm all for this thread becoming a girl-only game talk thread smile.gif

don't worry about it, chit chat all you want lol smile.gif

anyone here play ds?
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post Nov 13 2007, 07:04 PM

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QUOTE(DragLung @ Nov 13 2007, 06:45 PM)
There are so many sections in this forum to post topics. I mean, for example, if you want to talk about your pet, there is Pets Wonderland, you want politics, move to RWI or Kopitiam, you want to talk about games, then go to Gamers' Hideout. So what's there left to post in GC? Makeup and boys as you said laugh.gif I know you can make the topic "strictly for girls" over here, but the problem is you don't expect many replies here because 1. lack of girls in LYN 2. lack of participation from already LYN girls 3. hijacked by the guys who try to "buaya" the poor TS or something (no offense) icon_rolleyes.gif Then, let's say, IF you don't mean to have your topic "strictly for girls", so what's the difference posting here and at the particular forum? And some moderators may even move your topic to the right section.
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Actually I just wanted to make a point. Too much sex talk thread out there. I don't want to make it into a 'feminist' forum also, far from it. Guy-bashing will get me nowhere, right? smile.gif

I also want to discourage girls from posting in those sex threads. Guys jump on any girls' replies there.

There's a thin line here. It's really hard to not cross anything, but I'm doing my best. But if girls talking about games is what it takes to keep this thread alive, so be it notworthy.gif

But you know, sometimes girls just want to talk about misc stuff to just other girls, regardless of topics. Or is it just me?

(Currently playing on ds: phantom hourglass, phoenix wright trial and tribulation, sims 2 castaway 85% edi, mysims, lost in blue 1, neves tongue.gif )
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post Nov 13 2007, 09:57 PM

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all i know about cars is that i can drive it lol.

n got car lover here, awesome!

p/s pls refrain from flaming the other sex ya smile.gif
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post Nov 14 2007, 04:50 PM

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i need suggestion on a neutral topic which us girls can talk about. can see many stray le. my suggestions:

books- fav chick lit, usually
film - fav films to watch with girlfriends
music - i love pop shuvit n jpop smile.gif
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post Nov 18 2007, 12:26 AM

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Abnormal? lol i never see myself that way. Unique, yeah. Rebellious, yea. abnormal?


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post Nov 20 2007, 09:49 PM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Nov 20 2007, 09:18 AM)
hey hey I'm all cool. smile.gif

anyway...

anime song..
cosplay...
no idea what this is...gyaruge gyarugee?
watashi zenzen dai suki?

what're you trying to say in the last sentence?? (your siggy I mean)
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As TS i feel bad for neglecting the thread for so long, but what to do? Law assignments takes time to finish sad.gif

Hahah guys talk about whatever except negative remaeks about the other flames. No pointing pointing fingers here. This thread functions like a break, so to speak, from the normal sexist threads in GC.

I lived in Japan before, about a year (was an exchange student there biggrin.gif). It says..

*Anime* ne
*Anime song* ne
*Kosupure* ne <-- cosplay la
+Computer game+ ne
+Console Game+ ne

watashiwa sorera subete konomu.

haha at least i think so.. it was like 2 years ago. havent practise much :"
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post Nov 21 2007, 04:37 PM

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QUOTE(feyhime @ Nov 21 2007, 02:05 PM)
Yukirin> Ehehe I am attending Japanese class, doing Intermediate now. JLPT coming (>"<).

Gladys> LOL Hahaha XD I pity those who really did the profiling and all, wasted. Yeah I read the Relationship Jokes. Funny stuff, good ones too XD

Hey, then stay in here and chat ba.

Oh yeah, I believe one issue that always becomes a bother to every girls hitting mid-20s. The "When are you getting married?" questions XD

How do you all deal with it?
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I said i dunt want to get married, which, i must say, shuts the trap from those people smile.gif

The thing is I'm attractive enough for them to not think that nobody would want me, so there's that la.

but seriously, i do think that marriage is overrated. *say* I get married, I dont want to live with him/her. I love my personal space to much.. lol/
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post Nov 21 2007, 09:39 PM

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btw feyhime--> I love your sig. It's that guy from The king and the clown right? That's one of my fav movie.

I love that he looks so feminine in the movie lol.
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post Nov 23 2007, 12:47 AM

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Lee Junki rocks! I saw a video of him in utube, ppl (read: WOMEN) screaming his name and saying stuff like 'he's so beautiful!', and 'cute!' and all. Apparently his sex appeal is looking feminine.

Doesnt help that he's wearing a looooog earing at the time smile.gif

smexy ^^
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post Nov 23 2007, 09:35 PM

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I agree that the thread is getting nowhere, which is, I must say, the beauty of it smile.gif It's supposed to be a sanctuary from the other threads. At least I want it to be.

Girls always chit chat about random stuff anyway whaaat smile.gif

Hmm true that it's really not serious stuff, so can anyone suggest a different name for the thread?


Added on November 23, 2007, 9:37 pm
QUOTE(7chai @ Nov 23 2007, 05:57 PM)
yaoi freak. eww..ph34r.gif tongue.gif
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yaoi rocks!!!


Added on November 23, 2007, 9:39 pm
QUOTE(feyhime @ Nov 23 2007, 09:34 AM)


What other music do you listen to?

Somebody need to get some topic up to discuss XD This is getting really boring.. sense_less?
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Currently obsessed with Peter Pan Musical's soundtrack. want to go again no money. So just hear online at flypeterpan.com X.x

btw, suggest some smile.gif

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post Nov 24 2007, 03:18 PM

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Vision and goals, that's a really good topic, thanks for suggesting it, nickiisthemost!

Wow, I guess my vision and goals in life center on getting the most experience that I can, on everything and anything. I dont really care about money, I mean it's good and all, but I cant imagine myself working solely for money. I'd imagine myself working at a NGO branch somewhere.. Now I just do random volunteer work with AFS.

My goal is to lead a happy life. Simple.
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post Nov 25 2007, 12:35 PM

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QUOTE(skylinelover @ Nov 25 2007, 09:38 AM)

topic title : girls chat corner
topic description : for girls only guys stay out

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thats the kind of stuff that will only attracts guys?

see if u like this:

title: Girls Chat Corner
description: On everything and anything BUT sex
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post Nov 25 2007, 08:33 PM

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Thread name changed smile.gif
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post Nov 26 2007, 07:36 PM

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Lets make it a point to ignore all stupid male comments. Thank you.

max_cavalera, of course you can join, as long as it's civil we dont mind at all.

nickisthemost, kindly edit your reply, please.

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Music is a wonder, isnt it. what a person like is SO different from person to person. And new music is being made everyday, it never ends. Its funny.

I want to watch a good show. Peter Pan the musical officially ended yesterday sad.gif Am sad.
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post Nov 28 2007, 06:55 PM

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today me n my friends started talking about ghost stories.. scary. Personally I encountered something 'unexplainable' before, but it's very mild. Anybody here have real life encounter with *gulp*?

(p/s- nobody superstitious anymore la nowadays.. i think only chinese ppl still believe 4 is bad n 8 is good. as for 13, i think it's a pretty number, and fridays are holy for me biggrin.gif)
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post Dec 1 2007, 02:28 AM

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QUOTE(Yukirin @ Nov 30 2007, 10:05 AM)
Ok girls, I found a topic which is quite disturbing in my point of view but I think I should share with all of you here since here is a free chat thread. Anyway, here it is,
This issue was first twitch the whole world when the Japan PM give the following Statement at March this year

» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «

I really don't know what to say....speechless. What do all the fellow girls think ?

If you view the BBC News website, there's lot more source on this issue. The case was first brought to court on March 2003 (which is 5 year ago from now) by all the victims. Here's the SOS

I guess old scar wounds don't heal overtime eh


edit: Added more SOS, Anyway if this is inappropriate for this thread PLEASE LET ME KNOW. I WILL REMOVE IT. 
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no, I think it's a good subject to discuss, thanks smile.gif

personally I haven't been following this case. Generally I don't read about anything related to rape at all; it's too hyped up. I mean, it's good that the story's there for people to know, but it makes me feel powerless, and I dont like that sad.gif

my only view is that Japan is a very male-oriented society. when I was there, in the classroom, and they were voting for class president and sub-president, everybody assumed that the leader would be a guy, and the sub would be a girl. I asked them why cant a girl be the president. They just look at me as if they never thought of it before. it's just their mentality.. too much pride, maybe? or just.. I dont know.. the norm for women to be treated as second class?

the funny thing is i told them about malaysia and how girls can be leaders too and whatever (another tidbit; even tho about 70% of teachers are female, the pengetua is ALWAYS male, whichever school you go to), and my mom is a principal as well, and I held some pretty important positions when I was in school, they were like, ooooooooooooooooooooooooo malaysia is soo cool.

Still, not everybody feels that way, tho.

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