WOW thats unbelievable. if 2 guys and one girl hangout, then i am ok with it but 5! wa lao wey! i dont feel secure actually lepaking with too many guys. i feel later the guys might take a big advantage on me.

i see. well not only i am a car lover but car enthusiasts now because i know quite a lot of technical side on each cars. even a lot of guys kinda impressed with me 4 that.

anyway, these girls seriously need 2 open their mind up. my girlfriends also sometimes give me a weird impression when they know that i am a different type of girl. i mean there is really nothing wrong to be totally different girl what. haiz! anyway i dont really care about it after all. no big deal. better move on with life than 2 deal with these kind of girls.

sorry, but i gotta say this.. most ppl say that men usually think about only 1 thing..
but the trend in girls club shows otherwise.. it seems that most of the girls think abt pretty much the same thing too!!

me? i am a mommy of a 3 year old, so i am so way pass all that..
but i frequent this subforum anyways to get to the girls garage sales n stuff..
i tried asking for info on ballet classes a few months back, but nobody replied.. so i dunno..
maybe they honestly have no idea or the topic holds no interest whatsoever because of the trend here..

Hmm I am not sure myself. Maybe something more general than just limiting it to chick stuff? I am not even familiar with chick stuff myself ( )

Ohh hahaha XD I am hopeless with any technical.

Yeah but it's common that people will shut off people that they considered out of norms out of fear of the unknown, I suppose? I am not really bothered by them since I have another group of friends who share the same interest, so I hang out with them a lot. As for those girls, I can hardly share anything with them, the only think they talk about is boys, shopping, boys, beauty, boys or gossip. Although there's nothing wrong with it but I get bored easily with them since I have no interest with those topics. They are nice people though, but too enclosed with the few things they knew and are unwilling to explore new things.

lol my record is me the only girl with 7 guys. XD
but it's normal for me...I'm usually the only girl a lot of the time. The guys I hang out with are my nearest and dearest.

oh well these kinda girls who only know about boys, shopping, boys, beauty, boys or gossip will never have long lasting relationship with bf 4 sure especially the PC n car mod geeks

hahaha then better lo like that i thought your gang is strangers at first haha

I have to totally agree with you guys. Once in a while, I find myself wishing that I had more common interests with other girls. In fact, my only close female friends now are childhood friends, whom I met in primary and the early years of secondary school. College girls... there seem to be only two types. The conservative type who studies 24/7 and I can only seem to have polite conversation with them (oh hey, the nasi lemak stall here is real good!) and won't hang out much cuz they have to study. And the gossipy, flirty, fashiony type, whom I have nothing whatsoever to say to! And the entire spectrum in between.

But as my biggest hobby is gaming, I find myself being able to connect much easier with guys. I actually would rather that it is not the case. Besides the social stigma that's associated with a girl hanging out with only guys, regardless of how innocuous the intent, I've come to realize that a girl can only be so close with guys. Even if you're close to the extent that you can share anything and everything without worrying that the guy secretly likes you or something... you still cannot have slumber parties, or bunk in his room when you come back from outstation, or help each other pick out clothes for that prom, or join that LAN party at midnight.

I only wish more girls were like those who've responded here. Unfortunately, we seem to be the 'abnormal' ones.

Abnormal? lol i never see myself that way. Unique, yeah. Rebellious, yea. abnormal?

well yeah, I mean as if my mom would let me out with four guys by myself. XD
usually those four guys would be my brother, my uncle (who's my age), my best guy friend and my boyfriend.
boyfriend is in canada and isn't malaysian so I won't be hanging out with him in KL XD
other three are always there...so usually we add another guy friend in. hahaha

misao, that is very true. my mom would hang me if I ever asked to have a sleepover at my best guy friend's house. Prom clothes-wise he has a new girlfriend to do that for him. Otherwise, I'm pretty much the person he comes to when he wants a girl's perspective on things and when he wants a shoulder to cry on or even when he wants me to tell him how stupid he is about girlfriends. hahaha

I guess other people just don't get that girls CAN be best friends with guys. I mean at one point my best guy friend and I "dated" but we don't ever talk about that cos it's just sooooooooo weird now...but we have been best friends for five years now and even now, people who don't know us think we're dating - NOT true.

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Nov 18 2007, 03:09 AM

good luck then

Dear TS,

I understand ur frustration in leading creation of this topic, but take it positively. Guys and girls are same nowadays and i didnt see any thread that spamming girls inequality with guys status rite? Though some topic might be off limit and also might be sensitive to someone but still it doesn't hurt right to hear more ppl's opinion? Somehow i think, IMHO la.. this forum is growing very well where a lot opinion can be share..

Lets take for eg. shopping and make-ups ya.. a lot of guys accompany girls to shop and they know how and where to shop with their gf/frens or whosoever. make-ups, some guys know make-ups. They even work inside beauty center specialize in helping girls make up ma. So i think this is a great things to be share around. As u said sharing is caring ma. So for girl they can voice out any of their opinion. So i jz hope everything in this forum can be take positively.

Everyone enjoy and learning and frankly, i do learn a lot things from the forum about girls. And of cos is thanks to the girls precious opinion and guys' sharp point of view.

Peace

ps: and for real you can really create any topic you like. Is good for a non important topic turns out to be an important information for others.

This post has been edited by Gamerz_Paradise: Nov 18 2007, 02:25 PM

TS, most of the topic is those shemale created with female tag, just ignore la..

btw, im gamer too, more into mmorpg..

whoah akak. dah lanjut usia main game lagi kah? apa game?

sry la dono wat r u talking.. i'm not good in malay language.

how r u feyhime wonder where r the rest of the old time mates here

how would we know you're not a shemale either? pot calling the kettle black.

LOL Welcome back Gladys! MIA for so long, go where? XD

spunkberry> ahaha, Gladys is a girl XD

Sleepover with guy best friend is like asking for an immediate death sentence. I do hang out more often with guys too thanks to my interest. I can say I enjoy hanging out with guys better than girls because there's a larger variety of conversations. But yeah, like spunkberry put it, it's possible for a girl to become guy's best friend. I have a few of them and we all knew it all along that we are all JUST BEST FRIENDS and nothing more. Any hinky pinky must get out of your system. It's not easy at the beginning but after a while, you get used to it that your 'friends' pile will never become your 'gf/bf' pile. (Or guys I hang out with are also 'abnormal'?)

Sometime it makes me wonder how many % of user in GC with female tag are actually a guy ? But heck who bothers. Anyway, don't take me wrong here. I just trying to lighten the mood and also it's been awhile since I come to GC. Most the time I lurks in AS and GH.

Talk bout girls gamers, it seem like here have quite a group and I notice even in East Malaysia Girl Gamers are growing as well. Even now, girls can sometimes easily beat guys in games that they favor. For that I really glad(Guys don't take this as an offense please =p oh wait I'm a guy too).

Anyway, how many girls here are actually in the working society yet still loves to play games ? I find it is very hard to find these type of girls. Again don't get me wrong, it just my curiosity. I only known a few but almost lost contact with them already. *sigh*

edit: some grammar error correction

P.S: Damn my office 40gate firewall. Blocking all the image file (even the edit/quote button is not shown,I have to disable image loading to get the 'edit' hyper link just to edit my post).

This post has been edited by Yukirin: Nov 19 2007, 04:36 PM

Yukirin> I am one of them. XD

There's a lot of female gamers. You simply need to know where to find them XD Otherwise I won't have a bunch of female gamer friends with me all the time.

the spunkbarry eat wrong medic eh? same stmt i'll throw back to her, kettle black shemale.

wat game u playing feyhime? im hanging ard ss2 CC n bz with work nowadays.. no topic can post in GC until this one comes up
last time the magazine female gamer interview one, memang scamm x1, no news then take the "resume" MIA.. omg.

Act, i think that it's normal for girls to talk bout fashion and make up stuff. cuz we're girls? if we din talk bout these stuff, who will? guys talk bout make up???
however, i totally agree wif TS, i'm sick of sex and bf stuff. We can be ourselves, independent n not only relying on guys.
I would like to suggest a topics.
1. ways to improve ourselves so that we can be more independent n confident.
2. if bf always play games, what can we do to fill up our own time (not jus angry/worry/or feel neglected, instead make them feel that we're juz fine even if they got no time for us)

http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/487940

15 pages that answer your 2nd Q, calistachan