After my salary increment (12%), I feel it still doesn’t match the market rate, so I confronted the director about the salary adjustment. He tried guilt tripping me, I expected that. He "said" they "will" add a bit more in the mid-month bonus, said only.

Not to mention office politics especially among long-time "loyal" staff... Also, I’m not gaining valuable experience and the unrelated tasks won’t boost my resume, QA Engineer. No career growth/development in 3 years. Promotion? Likely only for those who stay 10+ years.

I'm planning to quit soon, but I feel stuck in my comfort zone, just like before, afraid to change jobs... Now got my own family, health problems, need stable jobs...


The conversation:
- He: Job satisfaction and health matter more than money. (non-existence, medical benefit)

- He: I leave on time and rarely work overtime, so money isn't a priority.

- When I mentioned market salaries being higher, he changed the topic.



This post has been edited by JimmyX: Mar 28 2025, 09:36 AM

Tell him u leaving once u got an offer.

If you want to stay in the comfort zone then you can't complain much. Most companies and bosses don't appreciate loyalty and judging from the stories you've given, that's definitely the case.

If you really want better pay and benefits, then you cannot be afraid to change jobs. You can slowly look around first, go try interview for fun and throw the letter once you secured the new job.

no need to stay. go to another company that can offer better salary. this is the time where money is everything. no money no talk. loyalty is just bullshit. the company will take advantage of your loyalty rather than appreciate it.

Just plan your move. When time to leave yhen just leave.

Company don't owe u anything

You don't owe company anything.

This post has been edited by bengang15: Mar 28 2025, 12:19 PM

i feel ts.. gua also sadding now..

but my problem is with HR, not with boss. HR rejected my promotion this month.

today still working. next week during cuti time on tuesday gua have to work also.

in anticipation of promotion, gua work hard. cuti also rarely take.
but now HR sudah kena kan gua. damn sad

Does this mean you rejected 8 times to go out for a meal ?

If yes, then IMHO you need to do some reflecting as well. It's just lunch (meaning still need to come back to office) unlike dinner + drinks etc which can really drag till early morning sometimes.

I think what your Director is hinting is that they can pay more if you add more scope.

Since they mentioned it, brush up on your email skills (there's AI nowadays) so you can immediately show that you took their feedback seriously and 1 less thing for them to micromanage you about. Then keep up the "improvement" momentum and start asking for more to do every few weeks. Many office jobs can be automated, but just show the results without blabing about clever you are in using the computer. Make yourself the person that the boss can turn to get things done.

That's how you get a promotion.

if already give you salary adjustment still not what you want, then means you both not match la.

ask for more also no use. if really tak syok, leave lor

so positive thinking advice..

for me, my superior also hinting about 'improvement' but the thing is, their is no guidance or lead by example..
they assume i can understand and execute it as per their direction.. when didnt materialise, kena scold kaw2.

bila i tried ask question on how to proceed, kena ask back.. you should this by now...bla bla bla
i mean apa salah asking question whether to clarify or re-confirm. communication supposed to be 2-ways but when i ask, mcm 1-way saja.

i feel too stress with no direction, always kena target.

hence, i break my ego and try looking for new job, i even try asking for internal transfer to other department. Personally, this is not who I am and i already felt this is not the position i'm passionate about.

so positive thinking advice..

for me, my superior also hinting about 'improvement' but the thing is, their is no guidance or lead by example..
they assume i can understand and execute it as per their direction.. when didnt materialise, kena scold kaw2.

bila i tried ask question on how to proceed, kena ask back.. you should this by now...bla bla bla
i mean apa salah asking question whether to clarify or re-confirm. communication supposed to be 2-ways but when i ask, mcm 1-way saja.

i feel too stress with no direction, always kena target.

hence, i break my ego and try looking for new job, i even try asking for internal transfer to other department. Personally, this is not who I am and i already felt this is not the position i'm passionate about.

Only way to get what you are owed is to jump

QA engineer, manufacturing what? as far as i know QA is always sought after. Even with AI cameras that do the grunt work, still need QA to for signing off.

Thats sad to hear bro

How can HR reject if yr boss say ok to promote?

So unfair. U already in the company so long

This post has been edited by amboi_asamboi: Mar 28 2025, 10:51 AM

He grab your weakness- afraid to change job.

So nothing much you can negotiate with him.


Unless u can eliminate your weakness

Need to take risk bro. Need to jump around

taking on tasks isn’t that bad anyway—provided you’ve already completed your own tasks and done them well. you just need to play a little office politics. when a superior asks why certain tasks aren’t being handled in a timely and proper manner, you can subtly hint that they’re not within your job scope while also implying that you're willing to help. that’s how one of the newcomers in my office managed to climb ahead of colleagues who had been here for 5–10 years longer.

edited:

i also need to ask if you are prepared for these tasks. if you do a good job, sooner or later, everyone will rely on you. the relatively new guy who got the top position i mentioned above is basically on call 24/7/365. even the boss needs to check things with him before dealing with agents and customers. when you reach that position, you won’t have to worry about salary—you’ll be one of the top-paid employees by then. if that still doesn’t satisfy you, it’s time to move to another company.

come to think of it, you're asking for more pay while still doing the same job. i think you should ask yourself what you can contribute to the company to make them willingly pay you more to stay. put yourself in your superior’s shoes—if someone asks for a raise but is still doing the same job, how would you deal with them? the first thing most superiors would do is bring up their weaknesses.

at the moment, you don’t have much to bargain with, except for the threat of quitting. that’s why what they said isn’t going to be what you wanted to hear.

This post has been edited by incognitroll: Mar 28 2025, 12:28 PM

Make sure get a new job first then quit from the current one 😁

reading his feedback to you assuming iur being honest about it, sounds like ur not worth much lol
u dont want to OT, dont want to do anything above ur scope, dont want to change job, dont wnt to train juniors
yet you want a promotion? for what lol
you wanting to buy the top spec honda civic doesnt mean anything to ur boss, doesnt mean he also have to be the one to up ur salary so you can buy things you want
you basically want to have your cake and eat it too
you like that job coz its close to your house, no need jam 1hr one way every day, maybe can wfh 2 days a week, nearby also got alot of ur fav stall for lunch time, ur work not that stressful coz ur boss and team lead will QA ur work so you can be more careless in ur work and have safety net to fall back when ur email reads like dog poop and ur boss has to correct it for you, your coworkers are people ur having fun being around with.
basically you are comfrotable there and dont want to change to a higher paying job but want ur boss to give you more pay coz u were there a long time? bruh, doesnt work this way dude
you start admin job 1.5k at 19 yo then stayed at the company for 40 years you want ur admin job salary to be 8k or 10k? bruh, wake up pls lol. they rather you quit and re-hire another admin for 2.5k max throughout the lifetime of their business
i mean it takes courage for you to list out the things you are incompetent in and yet still have the balls to say you want a promotion lol
if ur boss need to QA ur email replies to make sure dont step on customer / client's toes it really goes to show the kind of people they are aiming to hire, cheap labour.

Can fuck the HR, oh wait, don’t eat shit where you eat… Seems so strange that HR can reject the promotion, maybe he/she jelly?


Out of 10 times example, I was only invited twice to fill up the dining table. I have medical condition that requires me to take medication with food and very strict diet. I don’t want to create undesirable impression for customers or the company.
I used AI to summarize information and more. However, my boss always wants to review and rewrite my work to "improve" it. For example, even when I provide detailed analysis, proactive actions, more than enough, he tells me not to overthink and write "nonsense". So, what can I do? Honestly quite demotivating



I could list all the extra work I contribute (my job scope and other), but when salary discussion, my boss would just say, “I pay you for your hours, so I can ask you to do anything within the hours. Don’t be kira-kira ok, the mid-month bonus adds extra” (yeah, extra RM50-100)...

Dude, I can work overtime, but if the OT pay is bad and I have to work at least two hours just to claim it, it’s not worth it. I have family to take care of, especially with a baby.
I work as QA Engineer and handle not just my job scope but also tasks beyond it, HR, small IT work, office suite macros (which considered part of my job) and various admin work.
Sure, they don’t review every email I send, but the culture is already set, most of the things have to go through the boss for verification.
When did I ever say I wanted a promotion? I don’t expect one, because this company only promotes loyal staff 10+ years. I just want salary adjustment to match the market, even on the lower end because right now I’m underpaid.