As a man i am attracted to women that pursue men. That means they know what they want and they go for it.

Might not be the societal norm and some may feel it cheapen the women, but those that pursue regardless just makes it more attractive and refreshing to me.

If any person that act on a non typical way will naturally just pique my curiosity, with heightened curiosity there will be more interest to engage. Sometime it work out and sometime it doesnt.

As for why i find it attractive or refreshing, it is not any one move or a killer tactic, but rather from a point of curiosity and interest it will slowly snowball to develop attraction and later on a comnection, just a very natural relationship progression.

Also perhaps i have a tendency to be attracted to more assertive type instead of the usual feminie female personality do play a role.