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 Girls mind change so fast?, Or she just playing?

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TSTearsFromMe
post Feb 21 2025, 07:33 PM, updated 10 months ago

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Obviously she so many hints that likes me and flirt alot last time,i even haven't tell my heart condition yet but recently she cold to me so i ask her, she said dont even like me from the start doh.gif
Hmm, waste of time and waste my feelings...

Its ok, need some time to heal...
heinlein
post Feb 21 2025, 09:23 PM

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move on with life lor, relationship not even started
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post Feb 22 2025, 10:38 PM

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QUOTE(TearsFromMe @ Feb 21 2025, 07:33 PM)
Continue from here https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5503956

Obviously she so many hints that likes me and flirt alot last time,i even haven't tell my heart condition yet but recently she cold to me so i ask her, she said dont even like me from the start  doh.gif
Hmm, waste of time and waste my feelings...

Its ok, need some time to heal...
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Based on what you shared so far in these 2 threads, I'm more inclined to think you misunderstood her "hints" more than she led you on. Not sure how you asked her about her coldness towards you, but if her reply is as direct as you said it, then it sounded like she was annoyed by you. Perhaps you can reflect on what went wrong and how you can do better next time.

Note: be careful not to blame yourself too much because a failed relationship is very often fault and incompatibility on both sides. Lastly, you can blame or paint her the bad guy all you want, but the whole point of self reflection is to grow yourself and not make this a waste of your time/feelings.
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post Mar 26 2025, 11:45 PM

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Just move on bro, life is beautiful 😉🔥
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post May 12 2025, 07:16 PM

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QUOTE(TearsFromMe @ Feb 21 2025, 07:33 PM)
Continue from here https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5503956

Obviously she so many hints that likes me and flirt alot last time,i even haven't tell my heart condition yet but recently she cold to me so i ask her, she said dont even like me from the start  doh.gif
Hmm, waste of time and waste my feelings...

Its ok, need some time to heal...
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Bro, for fuck sake, is this normal nowdays, hahaa,, cause,, i think i been through the same like ur sit i guess.
mine was long dist, yet,, same occurance.

the part tht gves mind fck is,, despite them acting like they into us,, at the end act like its nothing at all,,the part u said she dont even like u from start.
yeah, we can assume we judged or miss conception,, but come on,, it can be that far or different.
how come, one side thinks they are into us,, but the other side think,, its nothing at all. that itself gives me doubt that they know what they did,
yet, afraid to admit cause, afraid seen as player. For me, if they really gave hope, saying sorry and admitting their decision was not to carry on is more respectable.
but instead, they act like its 0.
so, thats why, i alwys thought,, like totally opposite end of spectrum, either they lie cause takut chopped player,, or they mmg,, dont knw difference between nice as friend and flirtatous.
Ofc, on surface,, third people can say anything, but the one that goes through the experience,, and how she is,, we know it more.

As in my case,, 2 girls.
things like, "i like like u so much", "we should meet", sending love reels,, call talk till late night, thn angry if i dozed or cut while sleep, asking me to wake em up every morning,
then, acting like no time, but the only time they have, they use it to talk to me. etc.
this girl was very strict when it comes abt bodily, yet she did make some hug jokes,, whch is also very sensitive for her.
but whenever i ask just chnce for date,, they act surprised. like, its some sort of offend.

And in 1 month(after suddent ghost due to "depression"), she came back claiming she is in relation with other guy,, vs me,, since last September.
FUn fact,, i used share wat the first girl did to me(i dont expose any of her identity not just paint red, i discuss) to this 2nd girl,, cause she wanted to know my past.
and she used to say,, how did such girl(1st) ever exist,, but,, in the end,, she did me worst.

And she even some sort of very famour, glamour, lots option type of girl but the chill, relax,,"homely" type lol.

They don't care about hurting people. They care for what they want and their image only.
If u tell them this, they hard deny it as well.








 

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