Already didnt have any communication with EX2 for 8 month. Now living with GF/EX1 doing sort of husband and wife thing but my mind keep thinking of EX2.

Is it so hard to forget someone. Is it forever doom to be constantly thinking of her

This post has been edited by kesvani: Feb 9 2025, 11:32 AM

Same rant again. You asked similar questions many times here and in Kopitiam.

Go see a counsellor.

Means you’re not ready to be in relationship in the first place if you can’t move on from previous one. Seek help

give it time, how long u with ex2, that will also take how long to dampen the feelings bro... u cannot forget, u can only wait until the pain reduce to keep in your heart forever...

Its easy to forget someone if you put your attention on important matters in the present.

Tried. More like a distraction only but its impossible to be busy 24/7. When sleep or relax or encouter familiar situation some though will just come up itself

It just means you're not present enough.

For example, how much time are you thinking about the woman that's living with you instead of the ex?

What is so special about EX2 until cannot forget?

Since already ex status, just move on .....

lol I thought kapcai honda ex2
seriously easy way to forget about old relationship is begin new relationship.
But make sure ur intention is genuine la, really trying to grow together if not dun use ppl to forget ur ex

This post has been edited by akhito: Feb 16 2025, 04:25 PM

I also dont know what special about her. Maybe his maturity and the compatibility seriously i also dont know. Deep i know she is not really a nice person but... someone how my mind to me to ignore it


I also dont know what it mean by move on? Forget about her? or just let her in my mind as person i know before like friends?

The guily part is i treat EX/G1 nicely because she kinda replacement of EX2 yet she will never be her.

This post has been edited by kesvani: Feb 18 2025, 08:28 AM

for me the meaning of move on is when u think of that person again, it doesnt hurt anymore.. and u cant forget a person unless u lost memory. and how to make you less hurt when think of the person? i dont know, i myself is struggling too.