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This post has been edited by Chastain: Jan 31 2025, 06:25 AM

Constant phone calls
Communication


What are the difference?

presuming you are a young male without much experience, there are a lot of difference

let me just give you an example: when you talk to your gf, you might talk a lot about the surface level things like meals that you have, things happened in the office etc however you didn't communicate about the inner thoughts and mindset.

in order to know and understand someone deeply, when difficult situation happens, you can observe and know what the person truly thinks and acts. when you communicate, you communicate about your requirements and thoughts.

relationship is not easy due to the way male and female communicate and think are different

Please stop dreaming!!!

This is 2025!!!

Base on my experience, I strongly advice love ownself first before other.

You can let me know ur partner is the best of the best but don't try with money!!!

there is a difference between talking and communicating

most of the time, women like to talk to their spouse

but the problem is that the women is not communicating but just talking

men rarely talk to their women but when they are trying to communicate the women are not really listening

The difference is quantity vs quality.

Double post

This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Jan 31 2025, 05:30 PM

1) Constant phone calls = spamming. Insecurity. Draining away quality time. Wastage.

2) Communication = speaking correct language at the correct level of awareness/ frequency, that the message is understandable & being transmitted & received accurately without any misunderstanding by the receiver. (You must speak the language you understand, the other half understands & make sure he/she understands what you are trying to convey = communication. )

If you speak the language that you understand & think the other half understand & called it communication = you are dead wrong.

2)

Such as confide about personal life. Sadness. Happiness. Joy.

Daily communicating from morning till night. Text messages etc.

That only applies to infancy stage of attraction ~ very short period of time. If this kind of scenario happens to a stable relationship - something just very wrong.

Every day you got sad story to tell ? Need to waste such time daily?
Everyday you got happy story to tell? Need to waste such time daily?

Why not put all these emotional story telling time to more productive things for the relationship? 🤦‍♂️. If a relationship can progress with only emotional expression, there won’t be so many sad cases around.

I agree.

Infancy. Probably the first 3 months.

Communication is about getting information across effectively.

If you've played team games/sports with your buddies. You know you just have to give a small signal and the whole plan of execution is agreed upon. That is communication.

You can call 24/7 and still not have any understanding, which means no communication.

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This post has been edited by nicole_4ever: Mar 15 2025, 09:23 PM