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nihility
post Jan 31 2025, 05:30 PM

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QUOTE(Antje @ Jan 30 2025, 05:51 PM)
Today we chat a lot

And she hated my guts  tongue.gif

Each time I tried to correct her.

So she made a list...

no routine, no priority, no expectation, transparent, sincerity, honesty.

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Easy though

Made my life easier  wink.gif

No need to ask her this and that everyday.

Thinking about her text messages and voice notes gave me cold feet.
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You don’t correct a person with a different level of awareness; it will backfire.
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Truthful words are unpleasant; pleasant words are not truthful. The one coming next is unpleasant:

1) Are you so desperate that you need to be entangled with the late 40s woman with a juvenile mentality?

2) We never met.
Words can be deceiving; emotions can be fabricated; videos can be faked. Trust none of it until you meet face to face. Until that happens, all the words, voice recordings, and video recordings carry 0 reliability.

3) She knows I have feelings for her. Made me think.
Even if you guessed it right , what is next ? Even if you guessed it wrong , what is next? Does the thinking solve the issue ? If not, stop wasting the effort. She stated it clearly; you are just her BFF, and she got a BF.

“Women don’t like men to 'fix' their problems”.

She is happy with the problem. Stop interfering. That is her own cause and effect to be faced by herself.

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What should you do? It is an easy decision - cut.



 

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