Based on your description, isn't it apparent that you're being facilitated as plan B?

Can see you're being transparent by didn't even bother to create dupe ID to post this, therefore, I'd be honest with you. If I were you, being used as plan B, I'll return the favor treating 2nd person as plan B too, or if I have to be diabolic a bit, you could have already guessed it.

Many better options out there, doesn't it? It's best not to allow yourself manipulated by the feelings.

When a person with this attitude, you think you'd want this as your lifelong partner? You decision to make.