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Advice Wanted My long term gf doesn't want to get married

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hoonanoo
post Feb 4 2025, 05:30 PM

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QUOTE(goldernspermboy @ Jan 24 2025, 09:51 PM)
I highly doubt this is the case..

We stick to each other almost 24/7 and building businesses together. No chance for her to meet anyone else. She did mentioned one time she confirm will get married with me but she just not ready. I really don't know why she still keep thinking she's still a young girl and marriage is still far away sweat.gif
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at what age she is ready?
what she wants to do before she gets married?
talk to her get married doesn't mean no freedom, still can go vacation and do a lot of things.
it is getting kids that will take away all the freedom.


hoonanoo
post Feb 4 2025, 05:33 PM

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QUOTE(NinG @ Jan 27 2025, 01:01 PM)
Agree +100
At least your gf know she isn't ready.

Don't step into marriage just because long run relationship.

Marriage life with kids 90% about 柴米油盐
Marriage life without child is different story
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I be honest, I've seen a lot of long time relationships break up.

For eg, I've got 2 classmates, they linked up in form 5, college, university, young working days...all of the sudden break up after 6 years.

Many years later, guy married another gal and migrated. And gal married a dentist and settled down in the north.

what's her excuse for waiting?

If TS is the love of her love, marry 22yo, 24yo, 26yo..also no difference.

unless she is thinking there is still hope for better ones.

 

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