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bobafett
post Feb 8 2025, 02:30 PM

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QUOTE(abelyap @ Feb 7 2025, 06:35 PM)
By her 30 yo, she will chase u to marry her instead
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U bulu also not fully grown want tok Kok. Kek
abelyap
post Feb 8 2025, 03:11 PM

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QUOTE(bobafett @ Feb 8 2025, 02:30 PM)
U bulu also not fully grown want tok Kok. Kek
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Haha dengki ni nampak .....
bobafett
post Feb 9 2025, 09:31 PM

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QUOTE(abelyap @ Feb 8 2025, 03:11 PM)
Haha dengki ni nampak .....
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Ah Yap oh Ah Yap. Small boy.
If u dont know, dont act smart can? kek
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post Feb 10 2025, 08:51 AM

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QUOTE(bobafett @ Feb 9 2025, 09:31 PM)
Ah Yap oh Ah Yap. Small boy.
If u dont know, dont act smart can? kek
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Haha dengki ni nampak ...
bobafett
post Feb 10 2025, 11:21 PM

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QUOTE(abelyap @ Feb 10 2025, 08:51 AM)
Haha dengki ni nampak ...
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Yap, grow more hair then talk. Kek.

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post Feb 10 2025, 11:29 PM

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At 26, is there a possibilities that most of her friends are still not married? If that's the case, it's quite normal.
My wife and I dated 10 years and after 1 by 1 her friend got married then only push for me to go ahead.

At 9 years - still need to propose?
2nd thing, u are staying with her family home - are u ready to get marry? To be honest, if financially u guys are still struggling, better plan ahead.
Once kids come into the picture, it's a whole set of different scenario.
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post Feb 11 2025, 01:21 AM

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QUOTE(bobafett @ Feb 10 2025, 11:21 PM)
Yap, grow more hair then talk. Kek.
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Haha dengki ni nampak ...
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post Feb 11 2025, 11:01 AM

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QUOTE(goldernspermboy @ Jan 24 2025, 09:44 PM)
Been together with my gf for at least 9 years, thinking to propose to her next year by going to vacation in Santorini but i overheard her speaking to her friends that she's not ready to get married in within these 2-3 years because she still think she's young.

FYI i'm 29 and shes 26 now.

What will you guys do if you're in my situation? I was planning to propose to her next year but im not sure what to do now. I even bought a new house so that we can move out when it's done (ideally in 2027). I'm currently staying at her parent place for now.

Should i proceed with the plan or just talk to her first?
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Hi TS, you appear to be a good decent young man, which is rare these days.

The key questions are:

1) Why are you currently staying at her parents' place now? Does this mean that you are staying together with her parents under their roof? They are cool with that? How are your relationship with her parents?

2) Why do you want to get married now? Does this have anything to do with staying under the parents' roof? Do you intend to have children and does your GF think the same about kids?

My advice to all men out there, if you don't intend to have kids, don't get married unless you really met your soul mate. Note, I said don't intend to have kids and not can't have kids. Only get married if you intend to have kids, start a new family and generation.

You should use this opportunity to reevaluate your life goals and aspirations and same goes for your partner. Have a good chat with her and if your life goals or BaZi chart does not align, its a good time for both of you to walk away.

You can focus on your career and she still has some good years left to look for another man.

Happy CNY and god speed.

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post Feb 11 2025, 09:15 PM

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QUOTE(abelyap @ Feb 11 2025, 01:21 AM)
Haha dengki ni nampak ...
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Yap oh Yap..Kesian butt hurt kena exposed. keke

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post Feb 11 2025, 09:18 PM

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QUOTE(bobafett @ Feb 11 2025, 09:15 PM)
Yap oh Yap..Kesian butt hurt kena exposed. keke
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Haha dengki ni nampak ...
bobafett
post Feb 11 2025, 09:19 PM

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QUOTE(abelyap @ Feb 11 2025, 09:18 PM)
Haha dengki ni nampak ...
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Kesian butt hurt kena exposed. keke
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post Feb 11 2025, 09:19 PM

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QUOTE(bobafett @ Feb 11 2025, 09:19 PM)
Kesian butt hurt kena exposed. keke
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Haha dengki ni nampak ...
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post Feb 11 2025, 09:24 PM

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QUOTE(abelyap @ Feb 11 2025, 09:19 PM)
Haha dengki ni nampak ...
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Kesian butt hurt kena exposed. kek

 

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