Mine will be 2 yrs on the 25th of this month..

same as ur situation, im in PJ and he's in aus..
but 1 thing diff is dat, he's not from malaysia, but a citizen in aus..

oh well.. u can celebreate wit her thru the net wad.. like how i did..
presents, u can jus mail it =p

i noe its not gonna be easy cuz both of u been tgt for almost 5 yrs, a sudden separation will be diff for u but u'll get used to it sooner or later...
the beginning of it, might be a bit susah ba..

but still, all the best =p

yayaya...agree..tat time most hurt lar..she cant even sms or call you..sommore worry bout her...and worry got guy will come spanar..

@babysept
I really tink that ur relationship is so sweet...
watch movie tgh through webcam...
u met ur bf through online game 1 rite?
u give me the hope in LDR actually..if 1 day u get married with ur boy boy then remember to tell us here wor....
:)sure every1 will b v happy....
wish u all the best ya..
@mandy
after 22days then remember to care more bout ur bf ah...
it's understandable that ur bf might have a crush on other girl as she is close and "reachable" since he is lonely thr....
sometimes it happens to me also(really small crush)...
but I know clearly that My gf is the 1 for me..
wish u all the best for ur relationship and happy for u for being able to end LDR soon...

Walao, dont say like that We should always support each other as it's my intention to start this thread in the first place....


Michael, well, we meet 4 times a year as both of us need to work and cant really take a long holidays. My bf is working at KL while I am working in my dear hometown, Sabah..so I think you can understand why we can only meet such a few times in a year. Anyway, going to end this LDR real soon...20 more days

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Added on November 10, 2007, 8:49 amYa, i will try my best to treat him well and really hope that he would appreciate my efforts. Thanks for your good wish...Really thank you Good luck in your relationship too!!! We must prove that LDR has the same possibility to succeed as SDR as long as we have trust, love, faith and persistence...Cheerssss

This post has been edited by mandysu: Nov 10 2007, 08:49 AM

wow so sweet like tat..
tat y i'm planning to get another 3G Phone to call her mah... lagi nice... can see her all the time...


@mandy...
for me i'm in KL and she is in PG... jus for a few months till now... i'll go back at least once in every 2 weeks...
last month i become the hero as said by my fren...
i wen back more than3 times.... 31st Oct still in PG...
wen back on the 6th, 13th then 27th... haha...
i never complain about tired la... i love to see her and hug her...
even everyday we talk about 1-2 hours on the phone...

so that's wat i'm trying to sacrifice...
I hope that mine will be ending also... she is trying to find a job here...
in food industries or Semi-Con also... anyone pls help???
she is trying to find one but hard to get... she study food but work in Semi-Con for 2 yrs already...
wanna join back food but hard coz no experience...

I'm the same as you, we know that we don't get to spend much time together but we also especially me don't have the money to buy a good webcam I know there's a cheap ones but I don't like it but anyhow, we don't even know when we can see each other in a year for this year it's going to be the second time. The next year I'm not so sure about it..

Yea, met him thru online games =p

I think, every each of us, do hope that our LDR could last forever thou it might not be as easy.
but still, we gotta giv our best and try to maintain the r/s as gud as how it was =p
jia you all.. thou ppl telling me LDR will not possible to be worked out, but i still giv my best cuz i really wanna be wit him..
and now, after i got to know dat, even thou im the only one being in LDR before, but but but.. now i got the whole bunch of u and it really makes me feel better and also giv me more hope after seeing so many of u, having a quite successful LDR =p

Watch movie tgt through webcam, is something we replaced by goin out for movie tgt cuz we cant =p

U guys can try, cuz i think its good and actually quite funny.. hehe =x

wish u all the best and gud luck tooo panda.. get married.. O_O .. long long way to go =p
who knows if u might be getting married before me =x

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Added on November 10, 2007, 2:58 pmehehehe.. i bought my N73 and he got his N95 lately..
but i think there might be something wrong wit the network.. 3G doesnt seem to work for both of us.. =/
and, for us to call ea other, O_O, its gonna be so exp =p

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Added on November 10, 2007, 3:02 pmermmm.. actually.. logitech's webcams are not bad..
i bought mine for 80 bucks 2 yrs ago, and i think its cheaper now..
mine not bad, after using it for 2 yrs, still quite ok...

Im also alwaz worried bout it, dunno when will it be the next time for me to see him again =p
and dats y, i alwaz wanna be wit him and of cuz, seeing him thru webcam, i'll be happy enough even thou i dun get to touch him and im used to it since we only get to c ea other once in a yr..

for me, next yr, ill think it will be the same for me where im goin over to Syd to visit him again...
cuz he's gonna start working by the end of this yr, so he cant really go anywhere... =p

This post has been edited by babysept: Nov 10 2007, 06:08 PM

Well I have another reason for not being able to get webcam as well, I can't just blindly go buy one without having a reason to my parents plus 80 plus dollar still considered quite expensive but haha later family see who am I talking with LOL I don't want them see mah

my family kinda knows bout it already =p
dad still kinda like blurry blurry but i think he knows, just act toopid..

and before i went aussie, he was asking me, y out of so many countries, i chose aussie.. kept asking me to follow some tours to play ard before meeting my frens =x

Eh!! SAME SAME!! LOL

But I was forced to tell my sister about our relationship.. My father also keep asking me you go Singapore going to meet that girl or not? When I told him that I was going to meet another friend of mine is Singapore he still ask you going to meet that girl or not? I was like

lol i have bad experiances with getting gf's online haha

can share ur experience here?

LOL.. i cant hide it from my sis or mum.. cuz my comp is not inside my room.. but the living room upstairs..
so whenever they pass by or come out from the room.. they can jus see =p

and my sis.. wit the mulut yg besar.. spread the news to my frens =.=|||
and i got spammed on sms, friendster and msn...

wow... punish her la... spreading your news then you spread her's in here...

LOL~ thou shes younger den me, but mai look down at her power..
she's more ganas den me..

yay version four!! and hell I didn't even know I posted 240 posts in version three...omg I have no life. LOL

my LDR is still going on fine...but sometimes I wake up thinking that I don't want to be in it anymore cos I don't want to make the effort anymore. It's a lot of hard work..*sigh* but obviously if I do anything now, he's going to be crushed - though he does understand that this is what happens in a long distance relationship. it's been five months and a week now...it's ridiculous..almost six months and I haven't seen him since August!! hahahaha

at least he's already surpassed my second relationship that lasted four months. xD My first lasted eight months LDR so let's see how this one goes. Haha

how's everyone?

fine here....
well if you really love him take it...
like my gf... she told me not to leave PG... but at last... i'm in KL...
she even said that she won come here to work but...
she will come if she can get a job here also...
things will change my fren...
Love is a magical thing... it can change a lot of thing...

WHEEE. V4 already!

What to do when both sides have really really nothing to talk already?

u r so damn true ..

love is = +