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You said you're thinking of how you can ngak me mah so I beware first
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Mar 23 2008, 10:03 PM
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Omg... Ok, take that word back
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Mar 23 2008, 10:09 PM
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But seriously, going to Pudu is terrible.. That's why I'm reluctant to sit that kind of bus.. lol.. Somemore it's only once a while so nevermind
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Mar 23 2008, 10:20 PM
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No, the station there I mean, anyway josh give me your MSN me and andy want to kacau you
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Mar 24 2008, 07:27 PM
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For me, of course I will be sad but at the same time I have to think, I couldn't be that selfish that as her bf just want her stay and not furthering her own education.
I mean, if she really changed then let her be. If the commitment towards you is strong then no worries. For me, to love someone, you don't really have to own him/her. |
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Mar 24 2008, 09:34 PM
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For sure I do hope that you can get back her and she will forgive of what you did to her.
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Mar 24 2008, 10:24 PM
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Same here, me and my gf last time used to talk to each other a lot but now is not as much. But still we're fine with it haha
Welcome to da club~!  *Asks Andy to come here* Hold on |
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Mar 26 2008, 04:36 PM
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We can't answer you, if you think this relationship has some future then go for it. If she shows no interest at all then move on..
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Mar 26 2008, 07:59 PM
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Whether you will have to know or not, it depends on herself whether she wants to tell you where she is going and etc. but it's ok to ask where she is going and all, but do take note that asking too much will make her think that you're controlling her.
If she feels like you have to and need to know, I believe she will tell you no matter what. For some people, it's really easy to get annoyed if you tell them that "I want to know, what you are doing and I promise I won't disrupt your way." But this thing can be work through..  This post has been edited by BlueWind: Mar 26 2008, 08:00 PM |
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Mar 26 2008, 08:15 PM
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Yeah, I do understand that most of the time you will have the burning question in your mind what she is doing and where is she going.. but IMHO, I really think that if she really cared about you then I believe that she will tell you some things although not all but at least it's better than never tell you anything at all.
That's how I think actually.. |
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Mar 26 2008, 09:10 PM
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Not exactly, worrying doesn't make you have no trust towards her. But rather because you cared about her, that's why you are a bit anxious about her.
For certain people, they are open-minded and others are quite conservative thinking. I'm not saying it's good or bad, it's just the environment we live more or less will affect the way we think. So sometimes, things have to be compromised, tolerate, understanding. I couldn't stress more about this as these are quite important but the thing is it requires both sides, not just one side that have those fundamentals as I mentioned. |
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Mar 26 2008, 09:27 PM
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Well, I'm not sure whether it helps you or not but I do hope that you will be able to make it with her in future.
All the best! |
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Mar 27 2008, 04:38 PM
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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Mar 27 2008, 03:48 AM) What would you do if you know someone is spanar-ing? Take spanar and whack kau that fella laHaha, I just don't know why I am asking this question  QUOTE(andyjyneo @ Mar 27 2008, 04:18 PM)    |
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Mar 27 2008, 08:16 PM
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Er, can I know why I'm LDR sifu?
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Mar 27 2008, 09:45 PM
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OMG, what kind of kungfu I learned?
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Mar 28 2008, 12:14 PM
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No, Andy is our taikor or maybe you
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Mar 28 2008, 09:09 PM
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But they went missing...................
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Mar 29 2008, 10:45 AM
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QUOTE(andyjyneo @ Mar 29 2008, 01:05 AM) no lah...actually you woke me up Andy, I understand what you're thinking now.. Because I myself also without realising that some of my jokes may offend people. I'm like you too, I can be like extremely serious and be a loner or become like a person who likes to crap around. I used to give myself a thought, when I joke why are my jokes can offend people? I don't understand why. all this while, i was thinking... with this kind of talking attitude, it's quite hard to be a good people, you know... i may offend people till i don't know but i like to joke around and it's my nature how to change it? either i'll be an extremely damn serious person or hilarious choices to make again, but once i've decided, i must honour my words and comply When people tell me that "Eh, don't say like that la", then immediately I feel down and all.. I was once wanted not to be a cheerful or want to joke around.. Until now I know that this is me, so sometimes when I joke then I see people's body language then if I picked up that something is wrong from then I just say sorry.. But for me I can't change myself for others, it's just me, if I offended people then I just tell them I'm sorry.. QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Mar 29 2008, 01:40 AM) Oh my god, did I done something? Sometimes people are quite sensitive like me.. You did not offend me at all....   |
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Mar 30 2008, 08:53 AM
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Good to hear that
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Mar 30 2008, 08:52 PM
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QUOTE(~Rogue~ @ Mar 30 2008, 07:11 PM) guys, i think i have some Long distance relation prob, i just started my realtion with my GF end of this january, and dat time both of us are working due to waitting for SPM result, and her off days and mine are not the same, she's on tuesday and mine is on weekend, so most of the time we keep in touch via sms , and lotsa lotsa calls untill my bill shoot up sky high till Rm500+, and i always try my best to be with her on tuesdays for only half days den i gotta go back to work edi, and btw, she living at seremban and i'm at kajang, and now i gonna start my college tomolo, and its located at PJ, and she still working coz she going for her form6, which the enrolment will be somewhere around mid of may, her personality is kida those shy shy type, and everytime on the phone , i always do the talking, sometimes even run out of topic, its just dat she kinda too quite, and i cant seems to get into her sometimes, and btw, she chinese edu and i'm english edu, so basically i'm trying to accept all the stuff dat she likes like TVB drama, chinese songs and so on, and i know she also trying her best to comunicate with me with eng, so i wanna ask those "long distance relation" pro here to give me some suggestion, on how to tighten up bond more stronger! Hey man, I was in your position where my bills were very high.. I understand that when you first started your relationship, you will tend to spend lots of money on calls and sms'es. Ok back to the main point, you said that she's busy with work but how long is her working hours? What about online during at night or if you want to save cost on the call then you may consider using Skype. As for your question about how to tighten up the bond more, do something special for each other. I have no suggestions but I'm sure we have other members have the idea. QUOTE(DeathWing @ Mar 30 2008, 07:46 PM) Yoyo, can I join the fellowship? hehe Of course you're welcome! |
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