QUOTE(TearsFromMe @ Jan 10 2025, 08:49 PM)
Hi there, know her for 2 months, everything going well with outings, at first i just wanna treat her as friend but the times goes on and now many hints that she like me, of course i like her too...
BUT she doesnt know my heart condition yet. (My heart condition might need an open heart surgery in short future)
So when is the right time to tell her my condition? Or end just this friendship? Any other good advise??
Bro, Im very sorry I will say "BIG NO"! Please forgive me.
Be Responsibility!
My experience! My parent without any health problem.
1. Older sister first husband (Thalassemia Carrier) Increase risk of blood cancer. Open secret most of blood cancer patient are thalassemia carrier. If you are carrier, most of advance country will not accept you for migration. Its a dangerous genetic disease!
-Never do any per-married check. She didnt know it after baby out (1 Baby). A lot of problem. Time Bomb. Now divorce already.
2. Second sister (Hep B)
-Sis know it but husband say its nothing. She didnt know how she get it. All family member dont have. She almost die when she was early 20 as bacteria active. 3 Baby, all carrier. Time Bomb.
3. Bro in law (Thalassemia Carrier) (Wife side) (Family all keep mouth shut)
-Never do any per-married check. Mother pass away when he just a baby. Now, with only daughter (Thalassemia Carrier). A lot of problem. Time Bomb. The husband is excellent person. Once he know it, he stop all the family plan. This is right character we need in this world.
As a responsibility person, please make a full check up on all genetic disease.
Hep A, B, C, Thalassemia, Aids, STD n more.
I hope anyone with dangerous genetic disease carrier please stop produce baby. Be responsible person. This is only way to stop all this!
Im serious. This is not joke. Dont believe, please ask doctor you know about tsunami of thalassemia in Malaysia!
Maybe you can say money can overcome any disease but not Thalassemia! Once active, you got 2 choice. Both also send you half way to hell. First, huge medical fee. Maybe safe you but your soul n money half gone. Second, money n soul all gone. Did you think about your next of kin please!?
Last, I know a lot of guy with big, long n powerful gun n girl with Murchison Waterfall. You all like to enjoy, play n show but "PLEASE BE RESPONSIBLE"!
This post has been edited by w19: Jan 12 2025, 02:55 PM