Having children or not itu lain cerita, you kahwin, sign paper because you want to give her 名分 ， if you think she not even worth a 名分 TS better fast2 let ppl go and she can probably found someone better than TS .

Have children?
Then who will be the legal guardian of the children ?

But what if it is her side unwilling to let go. My case I already let her go(literally chase her out) but she die die want come back live same room with me. Now my thought now is hope while with me she can find a better one.

Of course the mother

In a nutshell, would it be possible for a couple to live together, have children together and getting old together without signing paper?

LOL, the mother rugi like that. Dunno who will willingly take this raw deal

Having children together, yes. But if the girl is foreigner, the children will be stateless without proper marriage documentation. If both go separate ways, the children becomes nobody's child.
So why put them in those trouble when you just want to enjoy life with partner?

Don't waste someone's youth.

Know someone said that and that is my EX1. She said to me should have just keep the child that dhe abort and bring back to her country and raise the child herself as a version of me.
If not mistaken the children will follow mother nationality

It is totally possible to not getting into marriage.

But you might want to rethink the benefit of the institution of marriage :

1. Legal Justification: Marriage provides automatic legal rights and protections that unmarried couples may not have. This includes inheritance, medical decision-making, and property ownership.

2. Social Norms: Unmarried couples might still face questions and judgments. You will constant face questions from people. If both of you do not mind, it will be fine. But think about your extended family, your children. 

3. Commitment: Marriage, as a ceremony, holds the power to solidify commitment. It provides a structured framework, a safe haven within which couples can navigate the inevitable challenges of life.

4. Economic Benefits:  Marriage often comes with financial advantages like tax relief, spousal benefits in insurance plans, and easier access to joint loans.

Cons:

1) Both person does not have abide with law which mean both can't claim on behalf if there is any issue happened.

2) Any of them could just disappear and you couldn't report to police for missing person due to not a family member status.

Having children or not itu lain cerita, you kahwin, sign paper because you want to give her 名分 ， if you think she not even worth a 名分 TS better fast2 let ppl go and she can probably found someone better than TS .

Definitely possible.

But no thanks, my wife sacrificed so much time and youth for me, least I could do is let her be officially entitled to every possession of mine when I’m no longer around.

If the idea of splitting up is even factored in the relationship, then might as well not start a relationship. Waste of time to both parties.

Why would u think girl sign something that’s disadvantaged to em?

Would u sign if you’re girl?

In a relationship, it is give n take.
Win win situation is very rare.

still see some responsible men out there.

thank you.
some girls make much more than men. your traditional thinking has to change.

how about you getting ready to cook, look after the house, and milk your baby. and get nothing in return.

Non family member cannot report missing person? Got any sos?

These days, many people are afraid of getting married because of various reasons.

I was just having a thought, what if a couple live together and go through their day like a married couple without having to tie the knot?

Couple would worry less about divorce + breakup + split assets, where they can just breakup without bearing additional hassles.

Pros: Don't have a worry about divorce, lesser commitment and responsibilities to bear
Cons: ? (feel free to share in comment)

For the sake of the simplicity in this discussion, let's exclude the factor of religion, we can take atheist as a good example.
Comments pertaining to religion will be removed.

In a nutshell, would it be possible for a couple to live together, have children together and getting old together without signing paper?

Cons:

1) Both person does not have abide with law which mean both can't claim on behalf if there is any issue happened.

2) Any of them could just disappear and you couldn't report to police for missing person due to not a family member status.

still see some responsible men out there.

thank you.
some girls make much more than men. your traditional thinking has to change.

how about you getting ready to cook, look after the house, and milk your baby. and get nothing in return.

These days, many people are afraid of getting married because of various reasons.

I was just having a thought, what if a couple live together and go through their day like a married couple without having to tie the knot?

Couple would worry less about divorce + breakup + split assets, where they can just breakup without bearing additional hassles.

Pros: Don't have a worry about divorce, lesser commitment and responsibilities to bear
Cons: ? (feel free to share in comment)

For the sake of the simplicity in this discussion, let's exclude the factor of religion, we can take atheist as a good example.
Comments pertaining to religion will be removed.

In a nutshell, would it be possible for a couple to live together, have children together and getting old together without signing paper?

Marriage is good.. It gives the person you care about legal and status protection. It's like doing business with registered ssm.You can also do without it but the limitations are there.