celebrate saturnalia, birth of mithra, pagan traditions and birth of Jesus?

I'm happy for you and your families of those who are celebrating.

But don't shove the festivities down our throat. There are some who have different faith. Are you that insecure that you need everyone to celebrate with you?

We also won't be offended if you won't celebrate hajj, aidilfitri, because we know its very faith specific. Just enjoy your holiday with your family and friends, that is all.

You definitely can celebrate together, the makan part and the fun part. Just do not involve Muslims in the religious part of it. Just like you visit your friends during hari raya or deepavali.