First impressions are important, but doesn't mean feelings cannot grow over time...

It's very simple to know if the other party is interested..just try to engage activities where there's only both of you...if there is interest, she will be willing...if no, that's when the whole village comes with her

How many times can "just layan"? Also, asking out doesn't mean you have to pay all the time...this is even a better indicator

I just saying, usually when you start out working in your early20s, that's the best time to find life partner.

If you find a girl willing to do things with you, like every morning you give lift to your female colleague to work, these are good opportunities.

Go out there at the work place and asking them out, is akin to mismatch. Because ur female friend may be intending to meet you to discuss work, sell insurance, asking for a lift but you are intending to go after her.

A mismatch may cause a lot of friction and misunderstanding. What if TS, you made friends with a girl you don't prefer (maybe you have high taste of girl appearance), you both been hanging out for long time, suddenly she fell for you and start chasing you. How would you feel? If you have no feelings for her, would you feel frighten? would you feel like you don't want to pursue friendship with her anymore?

Its the same the other way around.

So TS, if you really want to find life partner, perhaps tinder, or some app that can help you find life partner. Other than that, searching for life partner at places that you most often frequent, may cause high risk. After all, they say don't eat and shit in the same place. but having said that, does not mean I completely discourage you from finding life partner at places you frequent.

Yea man, I went to a date thinking it would be a normal date, but then end up with a bunch of MLM people talking to me like they are trying to be friends with me for no reason. It's a good first hand experience on how they fish people into joining. But I wasted 3k for that shit lol