Welcome Guest ( Log In | Register )

Outline · [ Standard ] · Linear+

 A few mind boggling questions about women, Feels like I need an answer

views
     
Cubalagi
post Dec 17 2024, 06:49 PM

Look at all my stars!!
*******
Senior Member
4,490 posts

Joined: Mar 2014


QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Dec 16 2024, 10:20 AM)
OK, I have a few mind boggling questions to ask regarding women / female etc.

1. Is it true that females normally see attraction as like the initial impression? Like if a lady / girl / woman sees a guy on the first look will determine if she is / will be interested with the guy? And is it true that if the female doesn't seem attracted in the beginning, no matter what the guy does at the end, it doesn't change much?

2. How do we know what a girl really mean when they say something. Like when a girl tells you she just want to be friends, there could be 2 directions here:
i) she feels she needs to know the guy more so she keeping the guy in check (some people told me but I am not sure)
ii) she really just sees the guy as a friend, nothing more

3. When you as a guy feels attraction and like really feel there's a connection but the girl is acting differently, is it you as a guy who thought too much? Cause I realise on my end, when i feel there's a connection, the girl will suddenly act not interested. What is this phenomena?
*
1. True to a certain extent. I think there is a subjective minimum standard. If u are below that standard you are an eeew no way. Above that standard you have a chance.

2. Girl actions matter much more than whatever she says.

3. Dont overthink. Sex is the determinant. If u dont get sex, assume you have nothing.


This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Dec 17 2024, 06:49 PM
Cubalagi
post Dec 19 2024, 02:42 PM

Look at all my stars!!
*******
Senior Member
4,490 posts

Joined: Mar 2014


QUOTE(silverhawk @ Dec 18 2024, 10:21 AM)

She say you're friend, you're friend la. Don't think so much, accept it and move on. Its a sure-win scenario. Thinking other than that puts you in a 90% losing scenario.

*
I remember my GF (current), she said few times she just wanted us to be friends and dont want things to be complicated.

I told her Im not interested to be her friend.
If she want a friend dont go out with me.



 

Change to:
| Lo-Fi Version
0.0150sec    0.66    6 queries    GZIP Disabled
Time is now: 7th December 2025 - 08:57 AM