Just proceed to divorce, to me in modern days, we should treat marriage like dating, if not happy after rounds of heart to heart talk, we just break off.. but of course getting divorced is way more complicated in legal perspective..

The reason I say that is because when marriage vows are exchanged, it was a heartwarming occasion, however humans do change over time as our Wealth, Interests, etc.. changed, hence if 2 individuals no longer come to terms, why not separate.. imagine for example, most people married on around 30, but to be honest, how can we be so sure that we can live with another person for the rest of the life span (which could be easily be more than 30 years) when we made the decision when we are around 30..

I think comparing a dog and a children do have some similarities but in fact they are really big difference.. at least the children exist because of love between 2 individuals but dog can be any dog (be it from the shop it was purchased from or from the street etc..)

As for this quote 寧教人打仔，莫教人分妻, I don’t really agree as I feel that is should not be a taboo to break off if love doesn’t exist anymore, no point being together for the sake of being together especially in our era where things have changed so rapidly..