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Advice Wanted Marriage advice needed, Divorce or reconcile

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Juggerballz
post May 22 2025, 04:45 PM

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QUOTE(pkn_jet @ May 15 2025, 10:19 AM)
We have proceeded with divorce and this should be the best outcome.  Sorry for not updating the status here after awhile.

Thanks everyone for your input, appreciated it.
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Hi bro, so how are you doing now? Meeting anyone new lately? To move on with life etc.
Juggerballz
post May 23 2025, 02:16 PM

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QUOTE(pkn_jet @ May 23 2025, 11:25 AM)
Ya easier for me as i do not have kids and a pure single man after all now. 

The thing with my new crush is that we were close, hang out together - but when our relationship gets deeper/closer, she pulled back.

Honestly, this hit me harder than my divorce.  rolleyes.gif
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She pulled back - means she broke it off with you?

Well a male divorcee (without kids) is still widely acceptable, it's just that probably it will take some time for the opposite party to get used to it.
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post May 23 2025, 03:59 PM

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QUOTE(pkn_jet @ May 23 2025, 03:57 PM)
Nope.. being bro-zoned.. May be she's not ready for a deeper connection for now (hopefully).. or at first it's just bro-sis at the very beginning.

Her defensive wall is rather high.  I can't force her but just to accept her decision.  May be she also felt I may use her as a "rebound" from my divorce.  So i can't do anything now but just to live on and improve myself.  Still hoping one day she will notice i've moved on from the past (in fact i already moved on).

Action speaks louder than text, right?
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Any sort of joint-name asset, or court case split going on?

 

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