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Advice Wanted Marriage advice needed, Divorce or reconcile

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post Dec 11 2024, 01:22 PM

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QUOTE(youngblood29us @ Dec 10 2024, 03:49 AM)
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dog is not an issue here..think shes not ready/ dont want to be a mum..
having kids aside, hows your relationship with her? do you feel any love from her? how do you treat the dog? if cold, would have been a major turn off for her..hence not wanting to have a kid with you..there is a real difference when you see/treat a dog as a dog vs treating a dog like a family..big difference..my wife is a dog lover and i know..if i would have seen a dog just like a dog, my marriage would not have lasted..it is important to love what she loves esp when it comes to animals..

if no love from her, better to divorce and move on..or else start treating her dog like a kid, she will slowly fall for your charm and be ready to give you a kid biggrin.gif
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I agree with your statement 100%

I apologise TS since I'm not you and can't know what you've been through or how hard it was for you during those 3 years.

But the way you wrote about it, from my perspective I don't really see you as a caring man with the way that you talk about the dog. Seems to me there are deep rooted resentments towards your wife, and you're just using the way that your wife treats the dog (and the dog) as an outlet for your resentment.

But I'm glad that you're planning to go for marriage counselling and again I apologise as I can't fully experience what you went through, but I hope things are well for you and I'm happy that you're taking a healthy way to try and work it out with your wife.

 

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