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Serious Remarriage, Anyone want to share about remarriage

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TSSona8
post Nov 28 2024, 05:56 PM, updated 2y ago

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Hey guys anyone want share about their remarriage after divorce at 45-50.

For the guys what age lady you married, would you recommend remarriage or single good. How did you go about finding that new love interest.
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For the ladies how did your remarriage work out? How did you find your new husband?

I am writing a piece for my uni. And I would like any stories that would help others.
abelyap
post Nov 28 2024, 09:18 PM

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New account + university project work + story writing
GamersFamilia
post Dec 3 2024, 09:04 PM

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Did you manage to write bout it?
Roadwarrior1337
post Dec 3 2024, 09:07 PM

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U want to suck advise also ask la properly

How long divorce edi? Time to get some poontang pie
TSSona8
post Dec 4 2024, 09:19 AM

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QUOTE(Roadwarrior1337 @ Dec 3 2024, 09:07 PM)
U want to suck advise also ask la properly

How long divorce edi? Time to get some poontang pie
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Eh eh... I not yet married oso. Pray tell me how would you ask them...wink.gif
nihility
post Jan 14 2025, 06:45 PM

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Not my story but someone very close to me. There are a few observations of successful remarriage cases (minority). Not all divorces ended badly. I'm quite reluctant to share such observation, but if a marriage is causing a misery until the risk of suicide or physical injury, then something is not right anymore. Life is about making the right decision; it is about correcting the wrong decision that is causing the misery (if attempts have been made to save the marriage). 

There have been 4 cases so far. Most of them went into isolation/cut off the connection from the relatives and friends. The case I'm referring to here, the recovery period was taking quite a long time, about 6–10 years. I was being cut off from his contact as well (even though he was very close with me since my childhood time). I'm glad to know that he has recovered and is happy with his 2nd marriage when he liked my social media posts in the last 2 years. He met his 2nd wife during their children's (primary) school activity. He was there for his daughter; she was there for her son. Both of them were single parents & divorcees from the 1st marriage. They are now in their late 40s. By now, their children/stepchildren should be in their teens right now.

If the post-divorce partner cannot get remarried, just live the life for yourself or for your children. No point getting killed by staying in an abusive marriage at present.
Chaud
post Jan 15 2025, 09:06 AM

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will pay and do again all those ceremonies?
Anubis77
post Jan 15 2025, 09:12 AM

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Too many variables la... depends on personality (timid and dependent vs independent and out going, positive minset, pessimistic mindset), financial freedom (have self generating income vs dependent on other's income), have kids vs no kids.
All will be deciding factors.
nihility
post Jan 15 2025, 09:26 AM

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QUOTE(Chaud @ Jan 15 2025, 09:06 AM)
will pay and do again all those ceremonies?
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Hidden away from families & relatives, no ceremony but only registration. I got to know after visiting one of my elder (he only shared it to this elder). Until now I haven't got to know his wife & stepson, probably not important.

 

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