Literally your daughter? Lol

Generation gap is huge here. But, oh well .. if u don't have such issue then it's ok .. even a 10 year gap itself can be challenging already

yes, ngam ngam half
i am 20 yo
my partner is 10 yo

TS half the age...... Ermmm better give up
Not fair to her

But if she's OK with it .. no problem there, right? If the puzzle fits perfectly, not an issue. People will always judge, but what matters only is what do you guys think. You may not outlive her. Is she OK with that?

R u very rich?

Why u need a partner? Old age?
What can u bring to the table by the time she is 30 yo?

Q2 is to answer Q1

24 and 48?

she will only be 36 when you hit 60.

she will be in her prime career era, youthful, making money
you will be old, slow, partial deaf, turn high sound volume, society doesn't want to hire you, men ego challenged.

a lot of understanding is needed.

Rather than age, cultural similarities and compatibility I think is more important. As long as youre both happy, who cares about what other people think. But, if one day u told her you're bankrupt. See how fast everything tumbles down... otherwise it's a win win.

Good. So u can provide.
As 4 marriage:
1)r u healthy?
2)r u younger than your age mentally AND physically?
3)do u want children with her?
4)whats her current job? (matters if she’s an escort/ sugarbabe (new norm) may b in just for your money… if she has qualifications n decent career, she can still work if u ever go bankrupt etc..)

Here

https://www.channelnewsasia.com/today/groun...age-gap-4672686

I’m 9 years younger than my husband.

Pros:
He’s very mature and knows how to handle all my dramas lol

Cons:
Younger women tend to be more energetic. If you choose to marry someone much younger, try to keep up exercise and stay active.

We dated for 2 years and have been married for 5 years. We have 1 child. Relationships can work regardless of age differences. The key is to be patient with each other. Love your partner, not just the person you dated. People can change over time, and if that person is still your partner, you need to continue loving them.

:thumbsup: if all good, just go for it! All the best! ( Age tarak hal punya la.. as long as ngam  )

but wait.. wats ur hesitation tho… why seek 3rd party opinion?

Honestly I am not sure how many men, but i know my partner will stick with me when I am bankrupt. Because she stood by me when I was jobless twice in the past (my own choice).

I suggest for your old sake, get someone like that. Or if you are still lusty after body at age 60-70, then get Playboy model

Diffeerent ppl different experience.  Your case different culture sumore… btw if poor, VN gals like husband also take care / finance whole family where she came fr .

I dun suppose u can do live in 1st? Make sure “every aspect compatible”… libido, temperament etc.. ( my fren VN wifu show real face color out after marriage...) hati2…

  oledi living together huh, at d other tered someone play coy says only meet-up @bookstores! I was like uhhh…at ur age…  

Anyways, I must say u protect urself pretty well… U dun need anyones advice. U knoe wat u r into…. Say, which bank offer best “trust”, a fren wants to know..  ?

  oledi living together huh, at d other tered someone play coy says only meet-up @bookstores! I was like uhhh…at ur age…  

Anyways, I must say u protect urself pretty well… U dun need anyones advice. U knoe wat u r into…. Say, which bank offer best “trust”, a fren wants to know..  ?

your sons / daughters will dislike her.
age 48 with 24, versus 9 year age gap, is very different

your mentality and her maybe good for now because of the honeymoon period.
when all settles down. there will a difference.
she is still young at 24, have not explore much of the world and might have a change of heart.
when u are 72, she is 48. remember this point too.

unless u are filthy rich and can afford good healthcare.
getting together on a 24 year old gap is just asking to win impossible odds.
yes u can win, but like naysayers say, the failure rate is 99.99%.

when u are old, your mindset will be different too, hers too.

my fren 26, her BF 48. 22 year gap.
she told me alot of her problems, some them include:
1) talking point references, example citing will be difficult, as both have different political, entertainment reference points
2) culture value difference, internet / smartphone ease versus old mentality of doing the old way is better
3) physical activity, older age get tired faster (even though both ultra fit)
4) money value, younger treasure money more, older guy just leave the money tap open

these are some more general issues, they have other specific ones, but i think those don't apply here.

this is chii's 2 cent

Yeah, … is it too late to set up trust now tat he’s merid? (2 prevent 50/50 split in d event divorce?)
Wah trust oso can b interpreted using different laws? …btw I googled abit, says trust in Msia charge a hefty 24% tax! How about offshore?

Pursuant to Schedule 1, a trust is subject to tax at the prevailing fixed rate of 24% of its chargeable income, just like a company. Unlike a company though, the preferential two-step rates of 17% and 24% for small and medium companies, is not available to a trust, however small the value of the trust property may be.

I totally agree… Merid should be for luv, not windfall wealth .. esp wealth they didn’t contribute effort in making… try tell her about prenup n trust etc ..? Watch her reactions…    ( fun fact: 1 HK case.. beauty queen trophy wife got stuck with fixed monthly allowance as long as still merid…if divorce = eat dust…lol)

Anyways, confused…   I tot u say Msia dun recognise prenup… meaning u must register ur marriage in VN so tat can do prenup?  With tat ur existing trust = still be enforceable ?