Close friends who got married total up got 6 of us. 3 of them got autistic kids. Incident rate 50%. It's crazy

I think back then the amount of autistic also same. Just they wont be so severe because lack of screen time. And got huge amount of human interaction to force the conformity. Imagine siblings banyak, out of 4 ekor only 1 autistic. The other 3 will have some way to pressure the autistic one to be more normal.

From what i observe. those non functional autism is solely due to lack of guide from the surrounding peers. Those with parents heavily involved and well informed in regards to autism, those who do early intervention from age 2 onwards have much better outcome than those that sit back and pray the kids are just in the phase, they WANT to believe they can outgrow the autism. End up by age 7 only they start to accept their kids are autistics.

i am saying those with severe autism la. Non functional type. totally incoherent in talking.

I mean to say they naturally autistics, not severe because got early intervention. those autistic who parents did nothing from age 2 to age 7 is those that speaking also got problem.

that's why it's a spectrum

Afterall getting diagnosed is just slapping label on him. Most of the time getting the diagnosis is more to please the surrounding ppl than the affected person. Human coping mechanism is weird and we tends to seek answer to thing that doesnt help if at all.

Took me a very long time to read between lines when ppl asking the question "i dont understand" it is just another way of saying "i cannot accept what is happening". They don't really want to know the answer.