My personal fav

Ante
Daves Bistro bar & grill a close second for western
Tonkatsu by Ma Maison
Big fish small fish

Actually why does it matter?
My ACTUAL first date with (wife now) was at open area coffee shop eating dim sum. If cant pass the test as wife material then why pursue the relationship? But then you may have diff thoughts, u may want a quick fcuk etc get first impression.

Id up the ante, 6 months later, hire a friend to be a fake influencer do a selfie interview ask her are you single or in a relationship, with you hiding 10m away, see her response. Then walk to her side and hug her If she does not say shes in a relationship you are fked.