I'm pretty much into trance music, progressive house, electronic dance, K Pop, hip hop, some English pop, and rock.

I used to dance a lot when I was younger; took classes and also performed on stage. Usually practised for 3-6 hours straight per session. Also choreographed + instructed too, at school and at work-- for annual performances. My colleagues couldn't pick up dance moves from MVs as fast I could, so I ended up teaching them the moves. haha

I can still do leg splits easily (horizontal and vertical), and turn my waist 360 degrees standing straight. My body is still soft and flexible.

Haih. Miss those good old times. Time to have fun again in my mid-thirties-- dance and sing like J Lo. haha

Sharing one of my fav girl dance:


& my fav boy dance:


I watch dance videos a lot and pick up some of the moves.

Spent time with ex on Christmas and also today, but ended with a quarrel because he was so jealous that I had other admirers whom I didn't say no to. He asked me what his status was (ex or bf) and I couldn't answer, so it broke his heart... I had already told him several times I was seeing other men, but I suppose the reality finally sank in and hit him hard today. Many times, I had encouraged him to move on, but he just couldn't. Haizz...

As for the analyst guy, he's still processing his emotions. We haven't talked to each other for 3 months, but I know he hasn't moved on. I had a car accident earlier this month, and when he knew about it from my FB post, he did an indirect public confession using a video reel (romantic song + his photo), and then he disappeared from FB for two days.

When he was online again, I responded with some public "cryptic" posts and videos that only he and I could decode the actual meaning, so he went to process his feelings again. Last Sun, I posted a hot sexy photo on FB , and he disappeared from FB for several days.

Based on my deduction and ChatGPT analysis, he's a semi-playboy who has never had any serious relationship but is falling hard for the first time. Hence, the hot-and-cold, confusing behaviour when we got too close (it scared him because he was losing control) and now withdrawals whenever I post something that stirs him.

Not sure if he'll ever reconnect with me, but I'm just uhh enjoying my life as usual. After I became single again in Sept, 10 guys approached me already. hehe~ Not sleeping around though, just giving chance and exploring possibilities.