QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Sep 28 2024, 11:34 AM)
My gf of 3 months now is always telling me to go "try talk to other prettier girls" and telling me to "try to get the prettier girls if I have the chance".
She's been constantly saying this and she said like "If I was in your position and if I got a shot at a Korean Oppa, I would".
I am getting quite annoyed on this. I have tried telling her nicely that she's all I want and I do mean it but she said "Since there are better ones out there, I am at loss for not trying the better ones". And also she keeps mentioning that "I can just put her at the side and treat her like side chic cause she accepts the reality that nothing is eternal and that she isn't committing 100% on this relationship with me because she doesn't want to get hurt too much".
Yes, she had gone through an ex cheating on her but it was like many damn years ago. I feel very tired handling this.
Any suggestions?
The way I read the message sound like she is asking you not to put too much commitment as she is neither putting much commitment. By telling you beforehand that she will jump ship should there is a better Oppa appearing in the future, is an attempt to make her feeling less guilty if such event really took place in future.She's been constantly saying this and she said like "If I was in your position and if I got a shot at a Korean Oppa, I would".
I am getting quite annoyed on this. I have tried telling her nicely that she's all I want and I do mean it but she said "Since there are better ones out there, I am at loss for not trying the better ones". And also she keeps mentioning that "I can just put her at the side and treat her like side chic cause she accepts the reality that nothing is eternal and that she isn't committing 100% on this relationship with me because she doesn't want to get hurt too much".
Yes, she had gone through an ex cheating on her but it was like many damn years ago. I feel very tired handling this.
Any suggestions?
Under this scenario, you cannot control what other ppl think or act, hence it is pointless worrying about something you have no control over it. What you can control is how you act personally. Knowing that she is not committing 100% & can call it off anytime, do you still want to waste your time to continue or you think it is worth event if it is for a temporary ? If you think it is worth your time, just continue. If you think it is not worth your time, move on.
This post has been edited by nihility: Sep 28 2024, 04:02 PM
Sep 28 2024, 03:58 PM

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