Sounds like she doesn't want to be in any relationship nor work on her inner issues.

In denial. You can't save her if she doesn't want to be saved.

Just let her be back to single.

"Happy wife, happy life." If she's not happy, the future will be bleak. This quote comes from a survey of men married for over 30 years: Listen to your wife, you will have a happy mood every day, and prosperity, positivity, and luck will come to you.

If she's unhappy, you have two choices: either break up or make her happy.

Before chasing my wife, I also checked our compatibility using 八字 (Bazi) or compatibility of chinese zodiac, before pursuing her. I personally think

Just my two cents—after having 5 ex-girlfriends, I'm now married with kid. We argue maybe once every three months, usually because of her complaints, and I typically don't fight back, even sometimes I felt that I am right. I take the opportunity to talk nicely to her about her complaint to explain when she is on the good mood

Well for what I think, I don't think I can fix it since this is her own deep down problem and must be fixed by her ownself.

How u get a girl bazi even before date?
Hebat le

a gal took my bazi before we on date.
by playing 算命 kira fortune

can one. how close relation you both now
visiting house/casual meet parents before ?

Got visit house de but if she doesn't acknowledge her problem, how do I help her?

sayang more. create topic (story) and extend it to daily life activities.
example our legs are same length, althought im taller.
driving not necessary to adjust backward, can fit her slipper, pyjamas. so many stories can be elaborate already.

root need to be strengthen. for above one.

during outside react as u are not interest to 搭讪 other pretty gal, pretend eyesight blur like that lor. must loyal to the queen.

whenever she spoken the sentence again & again. dont act like u are bored of listening.

Took her IG to identify her birthday celebration by knowing her Chinese zodiac sign. Then, sent texts to gradually uncover more details.