To all the sifus and experienced married couples, what would you advice young married couples on sex? Must the husband (usually the case) always initiate or ask for it? Should the wife also initiate? How much sex is healthy for a young couple? Although I know that there are subjective factors like libido levels on both husband or wife, there should be an objective standard as to the average number of times deemed healthy.

Google normally gives Western culture's version of it. But i am curious as to how experienced married couples who have gone through ups and downs in their marriage view this issue.

What type of advice would you give, if a young couple says 1 party wants it a lot more than the other? How does compromise look in those situations? What happens if neither are able to compromise (keyword is able - meaning they may be willing to compromise, but unable to do it)?

If sex can affect marriage, how does it affect it?

Thanks in advance for sharing your views, opinions and advice.

After married will be lesser because u can’t eat chicken rice everyday

U need some variety

Some day I like fuk kien mee, some day capati

We are not design to be with one whole life. Simple as that. Some guy created a custom many moons ago and now entire human is bound to this thing called marriage

when it starts to become a chore instead as something u look forward to for either one of u

Have you heard the story on why some Condom packaging quantity selling in pharmacies?

3pcs is for during teenage days can do 2~3 round per night

12pcs is for married life only 1 time/month for a year...

This post has been edited by littlefire: Sep 6 2024, 01:37 PM

for me..3-4 times a week..and most of time..i'm the only who initiate it..

it's very depends on the couple's libido. if wife want 1 month once... while husband want 2 - 3 times per week... the marriage is quite dangerous you know

can always go outside and release or look for your 5 finger.

if you are married or have experienced with sex, you know you can't go back to Ms. 5. Ms 5 can't satisfy you anymore

try to get 1-2 times a year after 12 years married.
if wife don't give, try look for a sub-wife.

what to do if you wife dont service you? ms 5 is foc else go out and pay lo.

use hand more interesting

you forgot that after more than 10 years of marriage and say 2 kids, men will revert back to the 3 piece condom cos s3x only happens on ABC

Anniversary
Birthday
Christmas

if husband maruah tebal than great wall how? must be isteri's job to settle for him?

anything money can settle is not a problem, go outside find another spot to shoot la.

Sometimes hands feel more satisfy than real sex

Jordan Peterson advice is once a week to nourish a healthy relationship.

You are a man of deep and prodigious wisdom

if you have great sex, probably you wont feel that day. if you meet a dead fish... then Ms. five would be more satisfy

Ok,now i understood why many people remain as single and unmarried. They can switch partner any time if one or more criteria had met.

guys is stills a human, things will get boring. is just time factor

Me and wife married 16 years, we still have it 1-2 times per week unless her "aunty" come or one of us is unwell.

All times i initiate it, don't really care who initiate it as long as I get it..haha

Not wife but all the while my gf initiate it, last time my ex also for many years. She will always start with a good head, almost every night except aunty comes. Come to think of it, I only initiate in the beginning of my every relationship. hmmm

No sets. Back to the old fapping

half year 1 times.

depends on mood and work

sometimes once a day

but minimum twice a week

Cheaper

My kes is when waifu want to open human making factory, then usually around the best of the calendar week, few times lo.

Otherwise, just use hand to flush the water tank.

20 + , 2 times a day
30 + . 1 times each day
40+ monday to friday
50+ 3 times perweek
60 + lanjiao tak mati , maybe once a week?
70 = Tak tao lor... ask that tun what

I'm 42, twice a week would be fine

Apply 9 multiplication

Age 1? 1*9=9 (1 week 9 times)

Age 2? 2*9=18 (1 week at least 8 times)

Age 3? 3*9=27 (2 weeks at least 7 times)

Age 3? 4*9=36 (3 weeks at least 6 times)

Base on doc.

10 to 19 = 1 week 9 times

20 to 29 = 1 week 4.5 times

30 to 39 = 1 week 3 times

40 to 49 = 1 week 2.25 times

50 to 59 = 1 week 1.8 times

60 to 69 = 1 week 1.5 times

70 to 79 = 1 week 1.29 times

80 to 89 = 1 week 1.13 times

90 to 99 = 1 week 1 times

Its mean we need to have sex every week.

salute

Lol

you can have sex but purposely chose not to ejaculate, that will push you to achieve more things in life

More likely a woman

3-4 times per week enough

always choose to pee instead of ejaculate

that will land you on different game

The Sith Lord has spoken

So who tried?

that's a whole new level there

Your wife didn't reject you even though no sick or no aunty visit?

Newly married young couple , everyday.

After 10years, one/two times per month.

After 20years, only on special occasions.

After 30years, no more mood.

Hardly. Trick is treat her well and give her hint later at night we’re doing it 😉

Treat her well like?

Do house chores!

Hahaha..
Ask her don't need to do anything for that particular day and you do it all for her?
Clean the toilet.... Iron the shirts.... And etc?

I guess that's a normal things to do as a husband, when im helping her at home, she seems know what in my mind, sometimes no need to wait night time, lol 😅🔥

Sometimes i really wondering dating or married is it so hard for men to have sex. Why need all those acting like help with chore, bought her nice stuff or food only can get. I mean if want just ask, she want just ask. Why damm complicated