TLDR version:

- Friend had trouble finding a gf for like at least 3 years+
- Got rejected by many local Malaysian / Klang Valley girls during these 3 years+
- Talking to a foreigner girl for like 1 year plus (on IG and it's on and off) and was interested at that point of time - [foreigner girl is Asian in Asia country] - foreigner girl is 35 this year
- Foreigner girl from having an LDR last time they spoke, until recently broke off and now she is single
- Friend already planned very long (since post-covid) to visit the foreigner girl's country and city (even before knowing foreigner girl)
- Bought tickets with a guy friend to go since early this year and informed foreigner girl
- Foreigner girl agreed to bring friend around to jalan jalan and sight seeing after knowing and planned a 1-day trip with friend already from earlier on
- Friend found a local gf recently about 3 months ago
- Friend's trip is next month and the girl reconfirmed that she will be going on the 1-day trip with him and his friend
- Foreigner girl mentioned about a local attraction that requires an entrance fee but she wants to pay for my friend and his friend
- Friend is worried foreigner girl might think friend still hitting on her and reciprocates
- Friend did tell gf that there's a foreigner female friend that will bring them around when at the foreign country when he is there cause previously agreed upon
- Friend's gf seems to be ok with it as this trip was planned before getting the gf, so gf not following

Is there anything friend needs to do? Or just go and whatever floats the boat, floats the boat...

Please enjoy while you can!!!!! Every male dream!!!!!

I will just go. Reasons 1. Already planned much earlier 2. Not going alone.

this is just a transition problem from being single to being a couple.

In short, 2 guys are going to travel and the foreigner girl will be a tour guide for a day.

OK ma. No issues as long as your friend make it clear to the foreigner girl that he has a local gf already and is purely there for a tour with his friend.

I don't get it

But she still going to mainly communicating with my friend and not his friend. Coz my friend knows a bit of their language while his friend knows none.

If dont want to heart broke and depress better dont go

I think your friend might be overly concerned. As mature consenting adults, I’m sure the boundaries would have been clearly demarcated beforehand.

My friend is concerned he might not be able to resist the temptation of the foreign chic as it's still a foreign chic.

Inb4 mai pren = TS

just enjoy the trip. no need overthinking.
the gf also okay.
just plan a new trip with gf after cumback from trip with the foreign chic.

You know your "friend" so well

My advice to your "friend":
Already spent time and money to plan for the trip + the friend seems harmless then don't waste lor.

Friendship with opposite gender is fine but do all you can to respect the boundaries.
1. If "friend" already has concerns "might not be able to resist the temptation of the foreign chic as it's still a foreign chic.", then make sure to keep on full sanity and alertness. That means no alcohol, fap if horny (because post-nut clarity?) etc.

2. Don't engage in physical touch. You cannot control others but you can make sure you don't be the one initiating any. Shake hand is ok but nobody in casual setting still shakes hand right? Lol

3. Don't owe her anything. If she treats you...r friend the local attraction tickets (maybe there's discount for locals?) then treat her back with a meal as thanks.

4. Don't go to her house regardless of reasons.

Your friend's self control so weak?

For me, require alcphol, loud music and darkened places to weaken mine.


We know that 🤣

lmao.
trust me. nothing is going to happen. all they will get is sightseeing.

Excellent advice. TS would do well to take heed… I mean, TS’ “friend” should.