Recently unker stressed af
Everyday work until 8pm and getting tired easily nowadays
Tak tau is physical tired or mentally tired
Really miss the good old days

it's a life choice, you have to bear the responsibility and possible consequences if you've chosen this path.

That's typical man without life goal, don't know what they want in life, hence free time.

If one needs get married to kill their free time, that's very sad

Just two months join this new company. Met with lots of disrespect and harassment from colleagues. Always kept low profile and carry a polite demeanour at office. All my experience working from Sdn Bhd to Berhad, never encountered such hostility before.

This Sunday night my heart keeps pounding to clock-in tomorrow out of anxiety. On my knees already but cannot throw letter yet. Bills to pay, loan to service, mouth to feed.

Deep down I really feel like want to retaliate back to them, not using words but violence. Lucky I am able to reason to myself, not snapped and go ape shit. Shit like this really took toll on my mental well being. I cannot understand why some people want to disturb other rice bowl, just cannot process their reasoning.

Other than venting here, already took action by looking for other opportunities. Pity the pay is good and the location is nearer to my home.

single or married isn’t the important issue. Your innate drive and personal motivations are.

There's quite a lot actually.

Sometimes the reason they are single is because of their objectives, no time/exp to find a partner
Don't stay in a toxic place for too long, no matter how strong your fortitude is, it will wear you down.

For the time being, don't take anything they say/do personally/seriously. As long as you're doing the right thing and truth is on your side, f`k whatever anyone says/do as long as you are at peace with your own actions. Reflect deeply into why you have these emotional reactions and try to deal with the root causes internally. Anger comes from within, if you're at peace with yourself nothing should be able to piss you off.

IT Jobs la... Unker got more than 10 yrs experience la in this industry... maybe over qualified until hiring mgr scared... maybe kua
Kena reject many reasons..
- maybe age factor unker into 50s liao ( most employee looking for younger)
- Maybe too expensive.. Unker previously worked in MNC..kena layoff. Unker even willing to take pay cut but yet still kena reject 😒
- too many jobless ppl out there.. 1 application 100+ apply... by the time unker apply unker CV at the bottom.. before even reach unker CV already identify right candidate so not easy la 
- Others factors ( dont know)

how to solve this issues?? So many jobless ppl out there to compete.. plus need to compete those not happy with current job want a change, plus need to compete with youngers ones, graduate looking for job....  again 1 application 100+ ppl apply gila!!!

You know the feeling but you cant help.. whats the use? 😒😒
yes... right now unker plan to be an insurance agent and property agent (IQI - heard they pay 5 figure commission).. just pass the exam now undergo some kind of training how to sell insurance / property etc...
but the challenge is many insurance / property agent out there again need to compete like crazy...... 😒😒

You're in your 50s but your wife still left you?

By logic at that age, should be thru thick and thin already.

How long were you together before divorce?

Hey bro,
Mid 40s straight guy here.
This year gone through a divorce, no kids, still maintain a healthy lifestyle..... run 2 to 3 days a week, weight training , etc.
Finance ok,  now looking for new relationship.... try to use datings apps.... and found it has changed so much.... these days u get cross dressers, trans, lady boys, scammers, fake profiles, etc (Protip: if they ask for ur whatsapp number after a few chats... confirm scammer)

Honestly, life now as a single guy seems quite good, just need to make sure my health is the ultimate priority now! I also find guys in our late 40s to mid 40s , we have zero support mainly becoz most of our bros are all married n kids to take care.... we r basically on our own..... but i must admit knowing single moms with 1 or 2 kids is quite easy these days..... many are out there is just that if u can accept that category.

So what does a single guy, mid 40s do normally these days?  im just being released from  a 3 yrs marriage life.... LOL to put it candidly.....