Hey buddy. I feel you .

I do not have kids yet but I still feel the pinch. In juggling responsibilities between taking care of elderly parents and wife, really sometimes feel burnt out until not interested in anything else.

Starting to reduce my commitments so that I can save more, thinking of selling my car to and downgrade to a cheaper one so that I could save more and more.

All the best.

For us men, no one to talk to , everyone expects you to bulk up and bear the grunt.

even when we sick, almost die ourself, we expected to still care for others.

we cannot simply show our weakness, do sad tik tok videos or post hoping for sympathy. it works for women maybe but not for men.

its a lonely and tough journey . and I'm really tired.