single or married isn’t the important issue. Your innate drive and personal motivations are.

have you met a single guy that have objective in their free time?

I met one that makes his own toy collectibles, he sells them in the internet.

Just two months join this new company. Met with lots of disrespect and harassment from colleagues. Always kept low profile and carry a polite demeanour at office. All my experience working from Sdn Bhd to Berhad, never encountered such hostility before.

This Sunday night my heart keeps pounding to clock-in tomorrow out of anxiety. On my knees already but cannot throw letter yet. Bills to pay, loan to service, mouth to feed.

Deep down I really feel like want to retaliate back to them, not using words but violence. Lucky I am able to reason to myself, not snapped and go ape shit. Shit like this really took toll on my mental well being. I cannot understand why some people want to disturb other rice bowl, just cannot process their reasoning.

Other than venting here, already took action by looking for other opportunities. Pity the pay is good and the location is nearer to my home.

There's quite a lot actually.

Sometimes the reason they are single is because of their objectives, no time/exp to find a partner
Don't stay in a toxic place for too long, no matter how strong your fortitude is, it will wear you down.

For the time being, don't take anything they say/do personally/seriously. As long as you're doing the right thing and truth is on your side, f`k whatever anyone says/do as long as you are at peace with your own actions. Reflect deeply into why you have these emotional reactions and try to deal with the root causes internally. Anger comes from within, if you're at peace with yourself nothing should be able to piss you off.

Just two months join this new company. Met with lots of disrespect and harassment from colleagues. Always kept low profile and carry a polite demeanour at office. All my experience working from Sdn Bhd to Berhad, never encountered such hostility before.

This Sunday night my heart keeps pounding to clock-in tomorrow out of anxiety. On my knees already but cannot throw letter yet. Bills to pay, loan to service, mouth to feed.

Deep down I really feel like want to retaliate back to them, not using words but violence. Lucky I am able to reason to myself, not snapped and go ape shit. Shit like this really took toll on my mental well being. I cannot understand why some people want to disturb other rice bowl, just cannot process their reasoning.

Other than venting here, already took action by looking for other opportunities. Pity the pay is good and the location is nearer to my home.

Unker current mindset, ma monies doesnt belong to me but ma family. Ayam slave for ma family. Ayam will serve ma family until kingdom come.

Cukur we're here now. Thank God

But we didn't ask to be born wor

Reporting in.

Can't rest. Wanna take one day off from operating I will keep thinking that one day revenue can go into my son's education fund or emergency fund or for a rainy day to pay for the staff wages incase another stupid virus hits or I am down with an illness.

Honestly getting tired with so much responsibility on my shoulders and no one to vent to

Just two months join this new company. Met with lots of disrespect and harassment from colleagues. Always kept low profile and carry a polite demeanour at office. All my experience working from Sdn Bhd to Berhad, never encountered such hostility before.

This Sunday night my heart keeps pounding to clock-in tomorrow out of anxiety. On my knees already but cannot throw letter yet. Bills to pay, loan to service, mouth to feed.

Deep down I really feel like want to retaliate back to them, not using words but violence. Lucky I am able to reason to myself, not snapped and go ape shit. Shit like this really took toll on my mental well being. I cannot understand why some people want to disturb other rice bowl, just cannot process their reasoning.

Other than venting here, already took action by looking for other opportunities. Pity the pay is good and the location is nearer to my home.

Getting really tired recently with family and work stuff. I'm not thinking about killing myself, I still love my kids and I want to grow up with them. But I won't lie, if a lorry is heading towards me, I may not try to save myself.

Early 50s guy here.

My 30s and 40s was indeed tough. As a consequence, my marriage failed and my health deteriorated.

But now I have passed the grind stage.

My child is now at final year uni. Im now prepping for earlier retirement and focusing on my happiness and health.

Now Finance ok. Health seem ok (my doctor said good!) and even relationships ok.

Life is pretty good.

Early 50s guy here. Life is pretty good.

do you mind sharing what was the tough stage like? situation that you can change and can't change? feeling stuck?

we can take this private, just want to learn from someone who have experience

What year and savings target to retire?

do you mind sharing what was the tough stage like? situation that you can change and can't change? feeling stuck?

I don't understand why you guys complain about how difficult it is to feed or take care of the family.

You chose to get married. You chose to have children. It's not like you didn't have a choice. You thought raising a family is easy?

Just two months join this new company. Met with lots of disrespect and harassment from colleagues. Always kept low profile and carry a polite demeanour at office. All my experience working from Sdn Bhd to Berhad, never encountered such hostility before.

This Sunday night my heart keeps pounding to clock-in tomorrow out of anxiety. On my knees already but cannot throw letter yet. Bills to pay, loan to service, mouth to feed.

Deep down I really feel like want to retaliate back to them, not using words but violence. Lucky I am able to reason to myself, not snapped and go ape shit. Shit like this really took toll on my mental well being. I cannot understand why some people want to disturb other rice bowl, just cannot process their reasoning.

Other than venting here, already took action by looking for other opportunities. Pity the pay is good and the location is nearer to my home.