is there a good soul in that company?

Can a guy who is single report in here? Haha..

Hey bro,
Mid 40s straight guy here.
This year gone through a divorce, no kids, still maintain a healthy lifestyle..... run 2 to 3 days a week, weight training , etc.
Finance ok, now looking for new relationship.... try to use datings apps.... and found it has changed so much.... these days u get cross dressers, trans, lady boys, scammers, fake profiles, etc (Protip: if they ask for ur whatsapp number after a few chats... confirm scammer)

Honestly, life now as a single guy seems quite good, just need to make sure my health is the ultimate priority now! I also find guys in our late 40s to mid 40s , we have zero support mainly becoz most of our bros are all married n kids to take care.... we r basically on our own..... but i must admit knowing single moms with 1 or 2 kids is quite easy these days..... many are out there is just that if u can accept that category.

So what does a single guy, mid 40s do normally these days? im just being released from a 3 yrs marriage life.... LOL to put it candidly.....

This post has been edited by Afterburner1.0: Aug 21 2024, 11:01 AM

What I did was get a sugarbaby 22 years younger.

At the same time still continue to date until I found my current GF.

Costs?

Wow.... nicee....how many dates did u go for until u found ur current GF ?

i think open another thread is good, as there are stuff single men is keen to do, while married ones are too busy.

maybe you should start the thread

A few first second dates, of which one became sort of like a situationship. She was from outstation, so we met up when she comes to KL.

At same time, iwould regularly meet my SB. My SB place is like my 2nd home, I have a car park and keys to her place.

Haha. I asked that because I see more attached men here than singles. Unless I saw wrongly.

Just posting here because I'm in a rut or depressed at the moment. Suffered 2 heartbreaks in a span of 12 months, work is horrible, home also not that great. That's life..

sorry you are going through some lows in life.. hopefully when it's low enough, it's rise from here

Thanks for that. I kinda gave up and lost interest in stuff. Am on sleeping pills now. Couldn't maintain good sleep. Lol

start with simple walk... exercise is a good way to counter low mood...

some things are bothering you, yeah, i miss those days when I sleep till 10am 11am when i was younger now 6-7am eyes open...

It's more like the guilt feeling. Where I cannot do anything right at all. What I shouldn't have done. And the realization that you've lost something good.

Hey buddy, how old r u ? lots of ways to go through depression so im not gonna harp on it like a broken record.... however for 2 heartbreaks in a span of 12 mths..... just chill abit n spend more time being single.... try the many wild flowers but dont pick them soo soon.... slowly roam the fields until u regain ur confidence..... try diff methods to hit on girls i.e; can try the cocky n funny strategy,... works everytime.... try dating apps to sharpen ur skills.... by no time u will be on track wit life....

what is done is done. can't regret much. can only learn from the past.... but it needs time to heal ...

hope you feel better soon

I'm 40 this year. Thanks for the advice.

What’s this? Another ‘someone I know got more than 1 kid yet they are doing fine’ ? Get out dude.

Life is about choice! Gogogogogogogogogo!!!!

Religion can help?
Unker everyday pray until now still jobless leh how?

Bro same here life is tough with raising costs of living.. furthermore unker recently got retrench jobless now.. everyday unker stress where to find $ to feed...