Life is hard, the last few years also don't make it any easy.

Any decent man with sense of responsibility will know this

Remember, everytime you're sitting alone drinking your tea/coffee thinking about finances, your kids future, your wife wellbeing - know this you're not alone

We just have to keep on going

Hey buddy. I feel you .

I do not have kids yet but I still feel the pinch. In juggling responsibilities between taking care of elderly parents and wife, really sometimes feel burnt out until not interested in anything else.

Starting to reduce my commitments so that I can save more, thinking of selling my car to and downgrade to a cheaper one so that I could save more and more.

All the best.

The great thing is that the kids loves me
Can't say the same when they reaches their teens and listen to Eminem tho

I also think alot.
Wife, Mom (widow), Kids with ex-Wife, Don't forget to pray and get closer to your religion and find peace with it

Unker current mindset, ma monies doesnt belong to me but ma family. Ayam slave for ma family. Ayam will serve ma family until kingdom come.

Reporting in.

Can't rest. Wanna take one day off from operating I will keep thinking that one day revenue can go into my son's education fund or emergency fund or for a rainy day to pay for the staff wages incase another stupid virus hits or I am down with an illness.

Honestly getting tired with so much responsibility on my shoulders and no one to vent to

Yup, have to take the good, leave the bad and roll with the punches.

Thanks bro

Stay strong to you too

It's getting harder and harder for me to find happiness now

Cukur we're here now. Thank God

But we didn't ask to be born wor

Cukur we're here now. Thank God

But we didn't ask to be born wor

Life isnt easy from the beginning...
Jus have to man up and face it, even if it don't benefit you at all...

A lot of folks sacrifice health in their working life.

Without health, can we do anything?

Rest, nutrition, exercise are all key to stress reduction and maintain optimal body & brain functions.

Once health under control, then life ain't so bad.

Recently unker stressed af
Everyday work until 8pm and getting tired easily nowadays
Tak tau is physical tired or mentally tired
Really miss the good old days

JoeK opening serious thread very susah

But now since got baby i have to absolutely agree this

Work so hard also then next time dont know kid will appreciate or not

Work not hard enuf later they blame you their future sucks

Work averagely kena blame say not hardworking enuf

So all options is dead

is this the root of the evil working?

i feel the elite husbands dont have the stress of working harder, earning more money.

if all the posters here has 1m liquid cash savings, will you still have this depressing and stress thoughts?

asking for a friend

dotter almost 2 yrs old within 3 weeks

bittersweet feeling whenever they're around

however the doomed feeling when u work, hell
constantly thinking how to provide and all
especially when im not 20k earner

the thing is. How u guys treat ur father?

I think it's a cycle. What goes around comes around.

I gave up games and started reading some books

This post has been edited by alexei: Jul 30 2024, 02:34 PM

Discuss this with your wife. Don't keep it all to yourself. When it comes to family finances, everyone in the family have a role to play and that begins by understanding the big picture and doing the right thing by cutting out unnecessary expenses wherever possible. You may also consider other options such as doing side business or changing jobs.